"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lump in Breast !!!

ANIRBAN

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Hey ...

I am dating a girl for almoist a month..and have gone physical except sex..as she is a virgin and so lots of fear..and insecurity. Yesterday, she looked puzzled and reported that she found a lump in her breast and would like to check it out and she suspected cancer and stuff...

We have a weekend outing planned..should I still take her out..she is willing to go...or should I not sleep with her..cause if I take her virginity then she will have the leverage and then I have to take care her problems..but since we like eachother so feel guilty to back out all of a sudden because of that...

Please help ME-who is torn between passion and responsilbility
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GaryNas

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Originally posted by ANIRBAN

Please help ME-who is torn between passion and responsilbility
Even if you don't care about her that much, or at all, the right thing to do is make sure she sees a doctor about this ASAP.
 

WaterTiger

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Although it's unusual for a young woman to have breast cancer, it is a possibility. Make her go to the Dr. It could just be a non-cancerous bump of some kind and will be totally harmless.
 

Wraith

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Get her to a doctor ASAP. Of your trip dont try to get any, if she wants it, she will let you know. A lump is a scary thing for a woman. Dont have sex with her if you think its her having an emotional release after either finding out its cancer or just a lump.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Legend

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its probably just a cyst....no biggie. How old is she?
 

italostud

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Originally posted by The Vole
Tell her to go to the doctor you idiot.
Lol
 
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