"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lump in Breast !!!

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ANIRBAN

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Hey ...

I am dating a girl for almoist a month..and have gone physical except sex..as she is a virgin and so lots of fear..and insecurity. Yesterday, she looked puzzled and reported that she found a lump in her breast and would like to check it out and she suspected cancer and stuff...

We have a weekend outing planned..should I still take her out..she is willing to go...or should I not sleep with her..cause if I take her virginity then she will have the leverage and then I have to take care her problems..but since we like eachother so feel guilty to back out all of a sudden because of that...

Please help ME-who is torn between passion and responsilbility
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by ANIRBAN

Please help ME-who is torn between passion and responsilbility
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Even if you don't care about her that much, or at all, the right thing to do is make sure she sees a doctor about this ASAP.
 
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Although it's unusual for a young woman to have breast cancer, it is a possibility. Make her go to the Dr. It could just be a non-cancerous bump of some kind and will be totally harmless.
 
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Get her to a doctor ASAP. Of your trip dont try to get any, if she wants it, she will let you know. A lump is a scary thing for a woman. Dont have sex with her if you think its her having an emotional release after either finding out its cancer or just a lump.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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its probably just a cyst....no biggie. How old is she?
 
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Originally posted by The Vole
Tell her to go to the doctor you idiot.
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Lol
 
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