“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lump in Breast !!!

ANIRBAN

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Hey ...

I am dating a girl for almoist a month..and have gone physical except sex..as she is a virgin and so lots of fear..and insecurity. Yesterday, she looked puzzled and reported that she found a lump in her breast and would like to check it out and she suspected cancer and stuff...

We have a weekend outing planned..should I still take her out..she is willing to go...or should I not sleep with her..cause if I take her virginity then she will have the leverage and then I have to take care her problems..but since we like eachother so feel guilty to back out all of a sudden because of that...

Please help ME-who is torn between passion and responsilbility
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GaryNas

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Originally posted by ANIRBAN

Please help ME-who is torn between passion and responsilbility
Even if you don't care about her that much, or at all, the right thing to do is make sure she sees a doctor about this ASAP.
 

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Although it's unusual for a young woman to have breast cancer, it is a possibility. Make her go to the Dr. It could just be a non-cancerous bump of some kind and will be totally harmless.
 

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Get her to a doctor ASAP. Of your trip dont try to get any, if she wants it, she will let you know. A lump is a scary thing for a woman. Dont have sex with her if you think its her having an emotional release after either finding out its cancer or just a lump.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Legend

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its probably just a cyst....no biggie. How old is she?
 

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Originally posted by The Vole
Tell her to go to the doctor you idiot.
Lol
 
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