"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LR: I f*cked girl within two hours of meeting her

El Payaso

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I just got back from f*cking this girl I matched with a couple hours ago.

I sent two messages to her before asking for her number.

We started sexting and before I knew it, she was sending me all sorts of nudes and talking about how she wanted me so bad.

She told me to come over right away. I went over and she was freaky beyond belief. Even begged me to **** her in her a$$.

I attached two pictures of our convo but I blurred my lines because I don't want people copying them. The first pic is Tinder and the second one is sms text.

I've been having some success with just going straight for the number within two messages. Obviously, it doesn't work on every woman but I'm only trying to filter out the high IL ones anyway.

I have two dates lined up for later today and tomorrow. I sexted with today's date two days ago and she sounds like a freak too so *fingers crossed*
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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l__i__l

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Nice, technology is making it harder and harder for girls to pretend they aren't 'Horney'.
Could not be further from the truth.
 

sazc

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Congrats!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Roober

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So what is a good first message?
 

Shift

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So what is a good first message?
I like to say something observational about one of their pictures or profile description. For example, I matched with a girl who had a picture that was a Snapchat screenshot. It was captioned "these hips will be the death of me", so I messaged her "hmmm those hips just might be the death of me too". She ate it right up. One Shakira joke later and I had her phone number and I scheduled a date.
 

Jetleg

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Did you f*ck her ass?

Had a lot of ONS like that from tinder, but they never do anal.

Im jelly
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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WitnessGR

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Simple. Cut. Clean. And people want to wait for this, dance around that. Goes to show that just being direct is effective.


"Give me your number."
"what is your address."
 
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