"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LR: I f*cked girl within two hours of meeting her

El Payaso

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I just got back from f*cking this girl I matched with a couple hours ago.

I sent two messages to her before asking for her number.

We started sexting and before I knew it, she was sending me all sorts of nudes and talking about how she wanted me so bad.

She told me to come over right away. I went over and she was freaky beyond belief. Even begged me to **** her in her a$$.

I attached two pictures of our convo but I blurred my lines because I don't want people copying them. The first pic is Tinder and the second one is sms text.

I've been having some success with just going straight for the number within two messages. Obviously, it doesn't work on every woman but I'm only trying to filter out the high IL ones anyway.

I have two dates lined up for later today and tomorrow. I sexted with today's date two days ago and she sounds like a freak too so *fingers crossed*
 

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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l__i__l

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Nice, technology is making it harder and harder for girls to pretend they aren't 'Horney'.
Could not be further from the truth.
 

sazc

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Congrats!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Roober

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So what is a good first message?
 

Shift

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So what is a good first message?
I like to say something observational about one of their pictures or profile description. For example, I matched with a girl who had a picture that was a Snapchat screenshot. It was captioned "these hips will be the death of me", so I messaged her "hmmm those hips just might be the death of me too". She ate it right up. One Shakira joke later and I had her phone number and I scheduled a date.
 

Jetleg

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Did you f*ck her ass?

Had a lot of ONS like that from tinder, but they never do anal.

Im jelly
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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WitnessGR

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Simple. Cut. Clean. And people want to wait for this, dance around that. Goes to show that just being direct is effective.


"Give me your number."
"what is your address."
 
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