"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LR: I f*cked girl within two hours of meeting her

El Payaso

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I just got back from f*cking this girl I matched with a couple hours ago.

I sent two messages to her before asking for her number.

We started sexting and before I knew it, she was sending me all sorts of nudes and talking about how she wanted me so bad.

She told me to come over right away. I went over and she was freaky beyond belief. Even begged me to **** her in her a$$.

I attached two pictures of our convo but I blurred my lines because I don't want people copying them. The first pic is Tinder and the second one is sms text.

I've been having some success with just going straight for the number within two messages. Obviously, it doesn't work on every woman but I'm only trying to filter out the high IL ones anyway.

I have two dates lined up for later today and tomorrow. I sexted with today's date two days ago and she sounds like a freak too so *fingers crossed*
 

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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l__i__l

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Nice, technology is making it harder and harder for girls to pretend they aren't 'Horney'.
Could not be further from the truth.
 

sazc

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Congrats!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Roober

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So what is a good first message?
 

Shift

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So what is a good first message?
I like to say something observational about one of their pictures or profile description. For example, I matched with a girl who had a picture that was a Snapchat screenshot. It was captioned "these hips will be the death of me", so I messaged her "hmmm those hips just might be the death of me too". She ate it right up. One Shakira joke later and I had her phone number and I scheduled a date.
 

Jetleg

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Did you f*ck her ass?

Had a lot of ONS like that from tinder, but they never do anal.

Im jelly
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WitnessGR

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Simple. Cut. Clean. And people want to wait for this, dance around that. Goes to show that just being direct is effective.


"Give me your number."
"what is your address."
 
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