Try to find women who don't have social media. Hard to do these days, but doable. I'm dating one such woman right now and it's good to know that when she's on her phone, she's just playing games instead of swiping on social media fishing for likes. But by definition you will only find these women if you engage in irl game. Social Media is a cancer of society.
I'm starting to become of the opinion that hot women aren't worth it in today's day and age, precisely because of what you're mentioning. I find myself swiping thru pictures of hot women on instagram sometimes, thinking how high maintenance they all are, to the point where most of them have spent a small fortune on plastic surgery just to get more validation from men.