Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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low IL to start off with. Is it even worth trying?

tosh

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Just wondering what the experts think of this.

If you get a number from a girl who has low IL, as I did tonight, do you even bother contacting her again.

You're probably thinking, how did you get the # of the girl if she has low IL. Well, basically I was more interesting than most of the guys there, conversation-wise so she decided to give it over, but I know for a fact she was eyeing and running after some of the other guys there, who she liked more physically.

Anyway, to make a long story short: Bin the number or use it in some way?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Warlord

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always assume interest, be persistant at first..chase a little, and if she starts becoming a lost cause. STOP. go do your own thing.
 

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Hell ya dude.

Did the same thing a couple weeks ago. Chick gave me her number but not much IL. Ignored the broad, told her we'll go out, never did (flaked out and never called on the day), then she apparently got pissy about it and started pursuing me. Gonna go out with her this weekend.

But then there's the other broad with low initial IL who just doesn't seem to like me and doesn't care whether I call her or not.

All depends on the chick I guess.
 

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Any other opinions on what the best course of action is in these cases?
 

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Assume intrest. If when you ring her you still think there is no IL. Bin it. But make the call....you may aswell...Not got anything to loose
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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