"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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low IL to start off with. Is it even worth trying?

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Just wondering what the experts think of this.

If you get a number from a girl who has low IL, as I did tonight, do you even bother contacting her again.

You're probably thinking, how did you get the # of the girl if she has low IL. Well, basically I was more interesting than most of the guys there, conversation-wise so she decided to give it over, but I know for a fact she was eyeing and running after some of the other guys there, who she liked more physically.

Anyway, to make a long story short: Bin the number or use it in some way?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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always assume interest, be persistant at first..chase a little, and if she starts becoming a lost cause. STOP. go do your own thing.
 
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Hell ya dude.

Did the same thing a couple weeks ago. Chick gave me her number but not much IL. Ignored the broad, told her we'll go out, never did (flaked out and never called on the day), then she apparently got pissy about it and started pursuing me. Gonna go out with her this weekend.

But then there's the other broad with low initial IL who just doesn't seem to like me and doesn't care whether I call her or not.

All depends on the chick I guess.
 
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Any other opinions on what the best course of action is in these cases?
 
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Assume intrest. If when you ring her you still think there is no IL. Bin it. But make the call....you may aswell...Not got anything to loose
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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