"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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low IL to start off with. Is it even worth trying?

tosh

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Just wondering what the experts think of this.

If you get a number from a girl who has low IL, as I did tonight, do you even bother contacting her again.

You're probably thinking, how did you get the # of the girl if she has low IL. Well, basically I was more interesting than most of the guys there, conversation-wise so she decided to give it over, but I know for a fact she was eyeing and running after some of the other guys there, who she liked more physically.

Anyway, to make a long story short: Bin the number or use it in some way?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Warlord

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always assume interest, be persistant at first..chase a little, and if she starts becoming a lost cause. STOP. go do your own thing.
 

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Hell ya dude.

Did the same thing a couple weeks ago. Chick gave me her number but not much IL. Ignored the broad, told her we'll go out, never did (flaked out and never called on the day), then she apparently got pissy about it and started pursuing me. Gonna go out with her this weekend.

But then there's the other broad with low initial IL who just doesn't seem to like me and doesn't care whether I call her or not.

All depends on the chick I guess.
 

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Any other opinions on what the best course of action is in these cases?
 

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Assume intrest. If when you ring her you still think there is no IL. Bin it. But make the call....you may aswell...Not got anything to loose
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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