Love at First Sight

MountainSlide

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I went on a date with this girl the other night. We had a pretty good time. First date. Met her online. My favourite thing about her was that she showed up with hard nipples. Anyway date ends, I go home, and carry on with my life.

She messages me two days later and says that she had a great time with me, and really enjoyed meeting me, but didn’t feel like I was her soul mate, so she didn’t want to continue seeing me . When I read that, I’m thinking to myself that this chick is a straight up retard.

She thinks she’s going to vet her soul mate based on a thirty minute first date??

I responded and said that “I don’t subscribe to the Disney propaganda of love at first sight. Also not looking for someone that superficial. Best of luck;).”

Where do these idiots come from and why do they waste my time?
 

backseatjuan

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I wonder why you get so excited about a simple "No!"

Attraction is subconscious, remember? Escalate and fck. She met you, she gave you a chance.
 

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If you're on your game you can give a girl all the butterflies she's looking for in that 30 mins, but hey sometimes she's got issues or you're not at peak game or simply don't like her that much. Don't read too much into her answer lol
 

MountainSlide

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I wonder why you get so excited about a simple "No!"

Attraction is subconscious, remember? Escalate and fck. She met you, she gave you a chance.
Honestly just thought it was weird. Since I hadn’t messaged her anyway ‍♂
 

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I went on a date with this girl the other night. We had a pretty good time. First date. Met her online. My favourite thing about her was that she showed up with hard nipples. Anyway date ends, I go home, and carry on with my life.

She messages me two days later and says that she had a great time with me, and really enjoyed meeting me, but didn’t feel like I was her soul mate, so she didn’t want to continue seeing me . When I read that, I’m thinking to myself that this chick is a straight up retard.

She thinks she’s going to vet her soul mate based on a thirty minute first date??

I responded and said that “I don’t subscribe to the Disney propaganda of love at first sight. Also not looking for someone that superficial. Best of luck;).”

Where do these idiots come from and why do they waste my time?
There are two types of people. Those that believe in a soulmate through the Disney frame and those that actually believe in soulmates for real (however you can have more then one “soulmate”).

The idea of a soulmate through Disney is two codependent people looking to fill a hole in themselves rather then doing it themselves. The idea of a real soulmate is two independent people who enjoy each other’s company. You can have multiple people in your life like this. The degree to how connected you feel depends on each of the individual person and how fulfilled they are.
 

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There are two types of people. Those that believe in a soulmate through the Disney frame and those that actually believe in soulmates for real (however you can have more then one “soulmate”).

The idea of a soulmate through Disney is two codependent people looking to fill a hole in themselves rather then doing it themselves. The idea of a real soulmate is two independent people who enjoy each other’s company. You can have multiple people in your life like this. The degree to how connected you feel depends on each of the individual person and how fulfilled they are.
In your example she sounds like someone stuck in the Disney frame. She doesn’t sound worth the stress. Don’t fret
 

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lol love at first sight

But i think mutual attraction at first sight happens.
 

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You mentioned nothing about the date itself which tells me it was probably pretty bland. I don't see why you're getting so worked up over her excuse to not see you again.
 

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change love for lust and you are gold

she need to lust for you, have her vag tingle and so on, you didn't or don't scaled or was bland the date, remember the whole date see if you could do better, and do better with another woman, experience helps a lot
 

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change love for lust and you are gold

she need to lust for you, have her vag tingle and so on, you didn't or don't scaled or was bland the date, remember the whole date see if you could do better, and do better with another woman, experience helps a lot
It's always this.

For women it's always biological (feelings) then rationality 1st.
 

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I went on a date with this girl the other night. We had a pretty good time. First date. Met her online. My favourite thing about her was that she showed up with hard nipples. Anyway date ends, I go home, and carry on with my life.

She messages me two days later and says that she had a great time with me, and really enjoyed meeting me, but didn’t feel like I was her soul mate, so she didn’t want to continue seeing me . When I read that, I’m thinking to myself that this chick is a straight up retard.

She thinks she’s going to vet her soul mate based on a thirty minute first date??

I responded and said that “I don’t subscribe to the Disney propaganda of love at first sight. Also not looking for someone that superficial. Best of luck;).”

Where do these idiots come from and why do they waste my time?
She is a hopeless romantic. Read up on those types.

Delusional, head in the clouds, flighty, flakey, searching endlessly for "the one to complete them". For these types the illusion of their perfect one can and will change at the drop of a hat. They actually fear commitment and brainwash themselves to believe it's what they really want for their image to society.

You dodged a cuckoo bird bullet.

 

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Lack of chemistry, it happens. I had love at first sight once, not a reflection on the quality of the relationship at all.
 
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