picard
Master Don Juan
Has anyone lost interest in dating women because your job taking away all your energy? The job might demand too much of your time that you just lost interest all together.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
lost interest in dating women due to stressful job?
- Thread starter picard
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Evangenlion
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Lets see, that can happen and it should stop. Unless you gain more pleasure from your job, change it.
Yes, it can.
I went without dating a girl for almost one year last year because at the time I was fully focused in building a business and making it work.
Needless to say the process was physically and emotionally draining. So much so, that it killed my libido.
I went without dating a girl for almost one year last year because at the time I was fully focused in building a business and making it work.
Needless to say the process was physically and emotionally draining. So much so, that it killed my libido.
you know
I kinda of really wish for this to happen to me. It would remove one hell of an extremely frustrating part of my life. I would kill to actually lose the interest itself for at least a year so I can put all this wasted energy into something that will build me up.
I kinda of really wish for this to happen to me. It would remove one hell of an extremely frustrating part of my life. I would kill to actually lose the interest itself for at least a year so I can put all this wasted energy into something that will build me up.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
the one thing that will always be there for you in life is money.
its not the key to happiness, but that doesnt mean it ain't worth anything.
there are millions of folks who would kill for a good paying job. and i mean LITERALLY kill.
there are millions of women out there. there's only 1 you. you can never invest to much in yourself! and your career is one of the best investments you can make.
J
its not the key to happiness, but that doesnt mean it ain't worth anything.
there are millions of folks who would kill for a good paying job. and i mean LITERALLY kill.
there are millions of women out there. there's only 1 you. you can never invest to much in yourself! and your career is one of the best investments you can make.
J
The_Next_Big_Thing
Don Juan
Re: you know
if you find it "wasted energy", then start right here right now on working on yourself. Whats stopping you? The common denominator that I see is that you are holding yourself back from stopping. YOU are, not women or anybody else but YOU. If YOU want to go work on YOURSELF, then go work on YOURSELF. you can do it!!! :cheer:
It is only frustrating if you make it frustrating. The game is not frustrating to me because once you learn to play it, then you will see that it is not frustrating at all. It is actually fun but you know what is not fun. When you have to deal with the side effects of when you are in an LTR that you get all these girls coming at you from all sides wanting your time. They will hit on you and try to validate themselves to you. It is sick. Just sick how many women per week try and validate themselves to me. I laugh at their attempts because of the fact that I am in an LTR. I once thought like you did that it was frustrating. How can women act like this? I always asked myself. I then realized after coming to this site that women have a different kind of logic and you must accept it and move on. otherwise it will eat you alive.Originally posted by Jamo
I kinda of really wish for this to happen to me. It would remove one hell of an extremely frustrating part of my life. I would kill to actually lose the interest itself for at least a year so I can put all this wasted energy into something that will build me up.
if you find it "wasted energy", then start right here right now on working on yourself. Whats stopping you? The common denominator that I see is that you are holding yourself back from stopping. YOU are, not women or anybody else but YOU. If YOU want to go work on YOURSELF, then go work on YOURSELF. you can do it!!! :cheer:
legolas
Master Don Juan
Yo Inc, what web business do you own?
TheGotDamnHNiC
Don Juan
fuk a b!tch ! get paid !
TooColdUlrick
Master Don Juan
picard, yes that is natural. in fact it's a good thing if managed, by yourself, properly. it shows that you are probably more concerned about your life than "hers" or women in general.
just make sure that what you're doing is worth the stress.
a while back i went for a full year without dating. zero, nothing, except a few hot strippers and a few c-notes to 'relieve some stress'.
that particular project/investment has paid handsome dividends for me.
just make sure that what you're doing is worth the stress.
a while back i went for a full year without dating. zero, nothing, except a few hot strippers and a few c-notes to 'relieve some stress'.
that particular project/investment has paid handsome dividends for me.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
being able to make a living and be self sufficient is EVERYTHING in this world.
its the one fundemental that you should always be taking care of and putting the utmost priority on.
i tell ya, i feel sooooo friggin bad for these dudes who get married, deal with the b*tch for years, then lose half of everything they worked for. They move into a crappy apartment and keep paying half of what they make to some ungrateful chic.
hey, if you find true love in this life, fantastic! but don't ever ever ever sacrifice your career or weaken your financial status over some woman. NEVER EVER EVER!
im on track to retire at 40-45, because i've kept my eye on my career.
and you know something, people sometimes say that focusing on money is a bad thing. they are always the people with 50 grand of debt and everything they own is mortaged.
let me tell you something. i'll take financial security over a woman any day of the week. NOTHING is better than knowing that no matter what happens to you in life, you've got the funds to get through it.
Keep your eye on the prize guys. and the prize ain't some woman, it's YOUR life. a woman is a nice addition to your life, but your career determines when you get to retire and do whatever the h*ll you want with the rest of your days on this planet.
:box:
btw, every single person i know, married or single, envies the fact that i've got tons of cash in investments. they all wish now that they hadn't taken that trip to wherever, put the downpayment on the huge house, or married the wife that sucks all the cash out of their bank account.
:crackup:
J
its the one fundemental that you should always be taking care of and putting the utmost priority on.
i tell ya, i feel sooooo friggin bad for these dudes who get married, deal with the b*tch for years, then lose half of everything they worked for. They move into a crappy apartment and keep paying half of what they make to some ungrateful chic.
hey, if you find true love in this life, fantastic! but don't ever ever ever sacrifice your career or weaken your financial status over some woman. NEVER EVER EVER!
im on track to retire at 40-45, because i've kept my eye on my career.
and you know something, people sometimes say that focusing on money is a bad thing. they are always the people with 50 grand of debt and everything they own is mortaged.
let me tell you something. i'll take financial security over a woman any day of the week. NOTHING is better than knowing that no matter what happens to you in life, you've got the funds to get through it.
Keep your eye on the prize guys. and the prize ain't some woman, it's YOUR life. a woman is a nice addition to your life, but your career determines when you get to retire and do whatever the h*ll you want with the rest of your days on this planet.
:box:
btw, every single person i know, married or single, envies the fact that i've got tons of cash in investments. they all wish now that they hadn't taken that trip to wherever, put the downpayment on the huge house, or married the wife that sucks all the cash out of their bank account.
:crackup:
J
The_Next_Big_Thing
Don Juan
YOU are the GREAT CATCH not the other way around
Work on yourself and women will follow later in the truck loads. I hope you have a big beating stick to get all the women away from you. Don't be controlled by your desires. Control your desires before they control you.
Work on yourself and women will follow later in the truck loads. I hope you have a big beating stick to get all the women away from you. Don't be controlled by your desires. Control your desires before they control you.