"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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lost confidence

donjuan332

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ever since i broke it off with my ex i has lost confidence in everything. my looks, approaching and socializing with women, i mean everything.i wont even talk to attractive women. will i wake up one day and be there again? its been about a month since we broke. i had confidence before her so i dunno whats happened. im lost
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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EBickford

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you miss her. im kinda in the same boat. i miss my ex

i feel pretty lost, and nothing makes sense. like the only thing that would make you happy is seeing her smile as she walks into the room.

i dont have a problem talking to anyone or approaching women, but i do have that "room full of people, but still feel alone" feeling, and that one where you cant see any girl as worth it as your ex.


im definitely not through it, far from it actually. just try to improve yourself, that has helped me. not just improve with women, everything.

oh and keep a journal. it really helps the chaos in your mind if you put it on paper(or typed). kinda like sorting it all out.
 

donjuan332

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i just reread what i typed and i sound kinda drunk, which i am...thks man
 

trent81

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it takes six months to a year. The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.
 
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