"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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donjuan332

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ever since i broke it off with my ex i has lost confidence in everything. my looks, approaching and socializing with women, i mean everything.i wont even talk to attractive women. will i wake up one day and be there again? its been about a month since we broke. i had confidence before her so i dunno whats happened. im lost
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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you miss her. im kinda in the same boat. i miss my ex

i feel pretty lost, and nothing makes sense. like the only thing that would make you happy is seeing her smile as she walks into the room.

i dont have a problem talking to anyone or approaching women, but i do have that "room full of people, but still feel alone" feeling, and that one where you cant see any girl as worth it as your ex.


im definitely not through it, far from it actually. just try to improve yourself, that has helped me. not just improve with women, everything.

oh and keep a journal. it really helps the chaos in your mind if you put it on paper(or typed). kinda like sorting it all out.
 
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donjuan332

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i just reread what i typed and i sound kinda drunk, which i am...thks man
 
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it takes six months to a year. The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.
 
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