"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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donjuan332

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ever since i broke it off with my ex i has lost confidence in everything. my looks, approaching and socializing with women, i mean everything.i wont even talk to attractive women. will i wake up one day and be there again? its been about a month since we broke. i had confidence before her so i dunno whats happened. im lost
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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EBickford

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you miss her. im kinda in the same boat. i miss my ex

i feel pretty lost, and nothing makes sense. like the only thing that would make you happy is seeing her smile as she walks into the room.

i dont have a problem talking to anyone or approaching women, but i do have that "room full of people, but still feel alone" feeling, and that one where you cant see any girl as worth it as your ex.


im definitely not through it, far from it actually. just try to improve yourself, that has helped me. not just improve with women, everything.

oh and keep a journal. it really helps the chaos in your mind if you put it on paper(or typed). kinda like sorting it all out.
 
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i just reread what i typed and i sound kinda drunk, which i am...thks man
 
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it takes six months to a year. The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.
 
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