"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Kev07

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djslvt, the problem with dropping a large amount of calories so suddenly is that you will cause your body to go in shock (in a way)

fat in nature is a GOOD thing, it's a survival mechanism for when you starve or are low on food, in other words LOW ON CALORIES.

what this means is, if you suddenly cut out a bunch of calories your body will go into calorie saving mode, which means it will start burning muscles that you dont need (since muscles take mroe calories to maintain that fat anyway), your metabolism slows down (your body will use less calories, so you'll be more tired, so thhat extra calories can go into fat to store). And since your body thinks you may be in danger, it might actually burn fat SLOWER than if you had gradually reduced in hopes that you will live longer.

same goes for when you get off your diet, don't just suddenly add a shvtload of calories back in, add it back slowly, 100-200 cals per week isg ood
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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djslvt, the reason that you dont drop a large amount of calories is because you may shock your body into survival mode, where you will lower your metabolism etc.

i wrote out a pretty detailed post, but the forum messed it up so soemone else can elaborate on this :woo:

edit: oh nvm it's up there lol delete this post =P
 

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Kev07 said:
djslvt, the problem with dropping a large amount of calories so suddenly is that you will cause your body to go in shock (in a way)

fat in nature is a GOOD thing, it's a survival mechanism for when you starve or are low on food, in other words LOW ON CALORIES.

what this means is, if you suddenly cut out a bunch of calories your body will go into calorie saving mode, which means it will start burning muscles that you dont need (since muscles take mroe calories to maintain that fat anyway), your metabolism slows down (your body will use less calories, so you'll be more tired, so thhat extra calories can go into fat to store). And since your body thinks you may be in danger, it might actually burn fat SLOWER than if you had gradually reduced in hopes that you will live longer.

same goes for when you get off your diet, don't just suddenly add a shvtload of calories back in, add it back slowly, 100-200 cals per week isg ood

Again, great advice. I think there should be a sticky to this effect because it's one of the most commonly misunderstood facts about losing weight and one of the most common reasons most people fail.

Hence why I'm echoing this post.
 

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Everything you need is right in here....

www.bodybuilding.com/fun/docs/2007/gameover_vol2.pdf

I've been following it to a T for 4 months...started it @ 6'0" 215 18%bf...now @ 204 12% bf. And looking bigger. Still gotta long ways to go before i'm shredded...but i'll get there! Good sh1t!!! :rockon:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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