"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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djslvt, the problem with dropping a large amount of calories so suddenly is that you will cause your body to go in shock (in a way)

fat in nature is a GOOD thing, it's a survival mechanism for when you starve or are low on food, in other words LOW ON CALORIES.

what this means is, if you suddenly cut out a bunch of calories your body will go into calorie saving mode, which means it will start burning muscles that you dont need (since muscles take mroe calories to maintain that fat anyway), your metabolism slows down (your body will use less calories, so you'll be more tired, so thhat extra calories can go into fat to store). And since your body thinks you may be in danger, it might actually burn fat SLOWER than if you had gradually reduced in hopes that you will live longer.

same goes for when you get off your diet, don't just suddenly add a shvtload of calories back in, add it back slowly, 100-200 cals per week isg ood
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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djslvt, the reason that you dont drop a large amount of calories is because you may shock your body into survival mode, where you will lower your metabolism etc.

i wrote out a pretty detailed post, but the forum messed it up so soemone else can elaborate on this :woo:

edit: oh nvm it's up there lol delete this post =P
 

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Kev07 said:
djslvt, the problem with dropping a large amount of calories so suddenly is that you will cause your body to go in shock (in a way)

fat in nature is a GOOD thing, it's a survival mechanism for when you starve or are low on food, in other words LOW ON CALORIES.

what this means is, if you suddenly cut out a bunch of calories your body will go into calorie saving mode, which means it will start burning muscles that you dont need (since muscles take mroe calories to maintain that fat anyway), your metabolism slows down (your body will use less calories, so you'll be more tired, so thhat extra calories can go into fat to store). And since your body thinks you may be in danger, it might actually burn fat SLOWER than if you had gradually reduced in hopes that you will live longer.

same goes for when you get off your diet, don't just suddenly add a shvtload of calories back in, add it back slowly, 100-200 cals per week isg ood

Again, great advice. I think there should be a sticky to this effect because it's one of the most commonly misunderstood facts about losing weight and one of the most common reasons most people fail.

Hence why I'm echoing this post.
 

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Everything you need is right in here....

www.bodybuilding.com/fun/docs/2007/gameover_vol2.pdf

I've been following it to a T for 4 months...started it @ 6'0" 215 18%bf...now @ 204 12% bf. And looking bigger. Still gotta long ways to go before i'm shredded...but i'll get there! Good sh1t!!! :rockon:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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