"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kev07

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djslvt, the problem with dropping a large amount of calories so suddenly is that you will cause your body to go in shock (in a way)

fat in nature is a GOOD thing, it's a survival mechanism for when you starve or are low on food, in other words LOW ON CALORIES.

what this means is, if you suddenly cut out a bunch of calories your body will go into calorie saving mode, which means it will start burning muscles that you dont need (since muscles take mroe calories to maintain that fat anyway), your metabolism slows down (your body will use less calories, so you'll be more tired, so thhat extra calories can go into fat to store). And since your body thinks you may be in danger, it might actually burn fat SLOWER than if you had gradually reduced in hopes that you will live longer.

same goes for when you get off your diet, don't just suddenly add a shvtload of calories back in, add it back slowly, 100-200 cals per week isg ood
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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djslvt, the reason that you dont drop a large amount of calories is because you may shock your body into survival mode, where you will lower your metabolism etc.

i wrote out a pretty detailed post, but the forum messed it up so soemone else can elaborate on this :woo:

edit: oh nvm it's up there lol delete this post =P
 

Jariel

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Kev07 said:
djslvt, the problem with dropping a large amount of calories so suddenly is that you will cause your body to go in shock (in a way)

fat in nature is a GOOD thing, it's a survival mechanism for when you starve or are low on food, in other words LOW ON CALORIES.

what this means is, if you suddenly cut out a bunch of calories your body will go into calorie saving mode, which means it will start burning muscles that you dont need (since muscles take mroe calories to maintain that fat anyway), your metabolism slows down (your body will use less calories, so you'll be more tired, so thhat extra calories can go into fat to store). And since your body thinks you may be in danger, it might actually burn fat SLOWER than if you had gradually reduced in hopes that you will live longer.

same goes for when you get off your diet, don't just suddenly add a shvtload of calories back in, add it back slowly, 100-200 cals per week isg ood

Again, great advice. I think there should be a sticky to this effect because it's one of the most commonly misunderstood facts about losing weight and one of the most common reasons most people fail.

Hence why I'm echoing this post.
 

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Everything you need is right in here....

www.bodybuilding.com/fun/docs/2007/gameover_vol2.pdf

I've been following it to a T for 4 months...started it @ 6'0" 215 18%bf...now @ 204 12% bf. And looking bigger. Still gotta long ways to go before i'm shredded...but i'll get there! Good sh1t!!! :rockon:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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