wifehunter
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I get the "I'm not looking" stealth stare from women, but guys are staring too!!! Ewwww!!!
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Losing weight side effect
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I have lost 60 Lbs in the past 5 months,and my life has improved 10 fold in all areas,I had to get used to women initiating again.
dustmuffin
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When I was younger at college I had the gays hitting on me all of the time . Not very pleasant. Learned to say no ty and move along as fast as possible.
EmotionalGeek
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Good. Now its time to gain muscle.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
PatientOne
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I lost a lot of weight due to a motorcycle accident. However, it is of no benefit yet, as my muscles atrophied and need to be rebuilt. I do get compliments from people who know me on looking much better.
So do you approach these women that are giving you this "I'm not looking" stealth stare or does the weasel in your
mind stop you from approaching by reminding you of your mantra "women are all trash"??
Genuine question.
Gaydar going beep beep beep from your male admirers perhaps? Doesn't seem pretty manly your use of "Ewwww"
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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I get the same thing man. My dad and my brother have it too, it's like our curse. A lot of faggots just take a strange liking towards and it grosses us the **** out. My sisters and mom laugh at us for it. I remember my brother telling me about some camp he went to and this kid asked him to be his gay buddy and trid watching my brother when he was changing. Well, at the camp they went water tubing and when it was that kid's turn, my brother did something to the rope so that it would tangle on his leg and flip the tube. The kid must have been drowning for like 10 seconds while the boat was going at like 20 or 30 knots lol. Kid didn't talk to my brother no more.
wifehunter
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Nah, too high maintenance.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I know right? I already have a wang, don't need another!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
wifehunter
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Good call.
homie
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Lol, when I gained some muscle (was really skinny before), I started to notice guys checking me out all the time. And sometime girls 
Thus I don't really believe that girls dig great physique, but guys definately do lol
Thus I don't really believe that girls dig great physique, but guys definately do lol
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zekko
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I've always suspected that guys are more impressed by muscle than girls are. Just look at this forum, it's probably the #1 thing guys are interested in.Lol, when I gained some muscle (was really skinny before), I started to notice guys checking me out all the time. And sometime girls
resilient
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Lol.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
wifehunter
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Yeah, muscle heads!!!
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"Do you even vibe, bro?"
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Hey that's awesome, @deesade.
I've had times like that when I felt on top of it all and the IOIs were free flowing in waves. It's been tough for me lately trying not to get jaded by some "tough" experiences I've been through and all the redpill knowledge I've consumed in recent years, but hell.... I dust it off, focus on myself, laugh, smile, and get back in the game.
Enjoy that summer, man! Sounds like you're off to a good start.
I've had times like that when I felt on top of it all and the IOIs were free flowing in waves. It's been tough for me lately trying not to get jaded by some "tough" experiences I've been through and all the redpill knowledge I've consumed in recent years, but hell.... I dust it off, focus on myself, laugh, smile, and get back in the game.
Enjoy that summer, man! Sounds like you're off to a good start.
zekko
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I mean, it's a bit like sports. Girls will go for an athlete because of his status. But a guy will generally have a greater appreciation of what a LeBron James or Tiger Woods does/did than a woman. Similarly, I think a guy can be more impressed with the way a guy has built his body, because he knows what is involved.Yeah, muscle heads!!!
mrgoodstuff
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One side effect if you are 30 lbs or greater over being a good bodyfat level is weight loss will increase your penis size due to covering less of it up under fat and stronger circulation resulting in larger and more powerful erections. The difference can easily be an inch or more and if you are a really fat guy with a little nub for a c0ck, you might have 2-4" buried under fat, when that fat comes off the c0ck is revealed... So being fat is really stupid...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.