wifehunter
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I get the "I'm not looking" stealth stare from women, but guys are staring too!!! Ewwww!!!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Losing weight side effect
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I have lost 60 Lbs in the past 5 months,and my life has improved 10 fold in all areas,I had to get used to women initiating again.
dustmuffin
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When I was younger at college I had the gays hitting on me all of the time . Not very pleasant. Learned to say no ty and move along as fast as possible.
EmotionalGeek
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Good. Now its time to gain muscle.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
PatientOne
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I lost a lot of weight due to a motorcycle accident. However, it is of no benefit yet, as my muscles atrophied and need to be rebuilt. I do get compliments from people who know me on looking much better.
So do you approach these women that are giving you this "I'm not looking" stealth stare or does the weasel in your
mind stop you from approaching by reminding you of your mantra "women are all trash"??
Genuine question.
Gaydar going beep beep beep from your male admirers perhaps? Doesn't seem pretty manly your use of "Ewwww"
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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I get the same thing man. My dad and my brother have it too, it's like our curse. A lot of faggots just take a strange liking towards and it grosses us the **** out. My sisters and mom laugh at us for it. I remember my brother telling me about some camp he went to and this kid asked him to be his gay buddy and trid watching my brother when he was changing. Well, at the camp they went water tubing and when it was that kid's turn, my brother did something to the rope so that it would tangle on his leg and flip the tube. The kid must have been drowning for like 10 seconds while the boat was going at like 20 or 30 knots lol. Kid didn't talk to my brother no more.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Nah, too high maintenance.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I know right? I already have a wang, don't need another!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Good call.
homie
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Lol, when I gained some muscle (was really skinny before), I started to notice guys checking me out all the time. And sometime girls 
Thus I don't really believe that girls dig great physique, but guys definately do lol
Thus I don't really believe that girls dig great physique, but guys definately do lol
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zekko
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I've always suspected that guys are more impressed by muscle than girls are. Just look at this forum, it's probably the #1 thing guys are interested in.Lol, when I gained some muscle (was really skinny before), I started to notice guys checking me out all the time. And sometime girls
resilient
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Lol.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
wifehunter
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Yeah, muscle heads!!!
resilient
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"Do you even vibe, bro?"
resilient
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Hey that's awesome, @deesade.
I've had times like that when I felt on top of it all and the IOIs were free flowing in waves. It's been tough for me lately trying not to get jaded by some "tough" experiences I've been through and all the redpill knowledge I've consumed in recent years, but hell.... I dust it off, focus on myself, laugh, smile, and get back in the game.
Enjoy that summer, man! Sounds like you're off to a good start.
I've had times like that when I felt on top of it all and the IOIs were free flowing in waves. It's been tough for me lately trying not to get jaded by some "tough" experiences I've been through and all the redpill knowledge I've consumed in recent years, but hell.... I dust it off, focus on myself, laugh, smile, and get back in the game.
Enjoy that summer, man! Sounds like you're off to a good start.
zekko
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I mean, it's a bit like sports. Girls will go for an athlete because of his status. But a guy will generally have a greater appreciation of what a LeBron James or Tiger Woods does/did than a woman. Similarly, I think a guy can be more impressed with the way a guy has built his body, because he knows what is involved.Yeah, muscle heads!!!
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
One side effect if you are 30 lbs or greater over being a good bodyfat level is weight loss will increase your penis size due to covering less of it up under fat and stronger circulation resulting in larger and more powerful erections. The difference can easily be an inch or more and if you are a really fat guy with a little nub for a c0ck, you might have 2-4" buried under fat, when that fat comes off the c0ck is revealed... So being fat is really stupid...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.