wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I get the "I'm not looking" stealth stare from women, but guys are staring too!!! Ewwww!!!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I have lost 60 Lbs in the past 5 months,and my life has improved 10 fold in all areas,I had to get used to women initiating again.I get the "I'm not looking" stealth stare from women, but guys are staring too!!! Ewwww!!!
When I was younger at college I had the gays hitting on me all of the time . Not very pleasant. Learned to say no ty and move along as fast as possible.I get the "I'm not looking" stealth stare from women, but guys are staring too!!! Ewwww!!!
Good. Now its time to gain muscle.I get the "I'm not looking" stealth stare from women, but guys are staring too!!! Ewwww!!!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
So do you approach these women that are giving you this "I'm not looking" stealth stare or does the weasel in yourI get the "I'm not looking" stealth stare from women, but guys are staring too!!! Ewwww!!!
Nah, too high maintenance.Good. Now its time to gain muscle.
I know right? I already have a wang, don't need another!When I was younger at college I had the gays hitting on me all of the time . Not very pleasant. Learned to say no ty and move along as fast as possible.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Good call.Could be envy.
I've always suspected that guys are more impressed by muscle than girls are. Just look at this forum, it's probably the #1 thing guys are interested in.Lol, when I gained some muscle (was really skinny before), I started to notice guys checking me out all the time. And sometime girls![]()
Lol.Just look at this forum, it's probably the #1 thing guys are interested in.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah, muscle heads!!!I've always suspected that guys are more impressed by muscle than girls are. Just look at this forum, it's probably the #1 thing guys are interested in.
"Do you even vibe, bro?"Vibe/energy will always matter more.
I mean, it's a bit like sports. Girls will go for an athlete because of his status. But a guy will generally have a greater appreciation of what a LeBron James or Tiger Woods does/did than a woman. Similarly, I think a guy can be more impressed with the way a guy has built his body, because he knows what is involved.Yeah, muscle heads!!!![]()
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.