wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I get the "I'm not looking" stealth stare from women, but guys are staring too!!! Ewwww!!!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Losing weight side effect
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I have lost 60 Lbs in the past 5 months,and my life has improved 10 fold in all areas,I had to get used to women initiating again.
dustmuffin
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When I was younger at college I had the gays hitting on me all of the time . Not very pleasant. Learned to say no ty and move along as fast as possible.
EmotionalGeek
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Good. Now its time to gain muscle.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PatientOne
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I lost a lot of weight due to a motorcycle accident. However, it is of no benefit yet, as my muscles atrophied and need to be rebuilt. I do get compliments from people who know me on looking much better.
So do you approach these women that are giving you this "I'm not looking" stealth stare or does the weasel in your
mind stop you from approaching by reminding you of your mantra "women are all trash"??
Genuine question.
Gaydar going beep beep beep from your male admirers perhaps? Doesn't seem pretty manly your use of "Ewwww"
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
I get the same thing man. My dad and my brother have it too, it's like our curse. A lot of faggots just take a strange liking towards and it grosses us the **** out. My sisters and mom laugh at us for it. I remember my brother telling me about some camp he went to and this kid asked him to be his gay buddy and trid watching my brother when he was changing. Well, at the camp they went water tubing and when it was that kid's turn, my brother did something to the rope so that it would tangle on his leg and flip the tube. The kid must have been drowning for like 10 seconds while the boat was going at like 20 or 30 knots lol. Kid didn't talk to my brother no more.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Nah, too high maintenance.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I know right? I already have a wang, don't need another!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Good call.
homie
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Lol, when I gained some muscle (was really skinny before), I started to notice guys checking me out all the time. And sometime girls 
Thus I don't really believe that girls dig great physique, but guys definately do lol
Thus I don't really believe that girls dig great physique, but guys definately do lol
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zekko
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I've always suspected that guys are more impressed by muscle than girls are. Just look at this forum, it's probably the #1 thing guys are interested in.Lol, when I gained some muscle (was really skinny before), I started to notice guys checking me out all the time. And sometime girls
resilient
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Lol.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
wifehunter
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Yeah, muscle heads!!!
resilient
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"Do you even vibe, bro?"
resilient
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Hey that's awesome, @deesade.
I've had times like that when I felt on top of it all and the IOIs were free flowing in waves. It's been tough for me lately trying not to get jaded by some "tough" experiences I've been through and all the redpill knowledge I've consumed in recent years, but hell.... I dust it off, focus on myself, laugh, smile, and get back in the game.
Enjoy that summer, man! Sounds like you're off to a good start.
I've had times like that when I felt on top of it all and the IOIs were free flowing in waves. It's been tough for me lately trying not to get jaded by some "tough" experiences I've been through and all the redpill knowledge I've consumed in recent years, but hell.... I dust it off, focus on myself, laugh, smile, and get back in the game.
Enjoy that summer, man! Sounds like you're off to a good start.
zekko
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I mean, it's a bit like sports. Girls will go for an athlete because of his status. But a guy will generally have a greater appreciation of what a LeBron James or Tiger Woods does/did than a woman. Similarly, I think a guy can be more impressed with the way a guy has built his body, because he knows what is involved.Yeah, muscle heads!!!
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
One side effect if you are 30 lbs or greater over being a good bodyfat level is weight loss will increase your penis size due to covering less of it up under fat and stronger circulation resulting in larger and more powerful erections. The difference can easily be an inch or more and if you are a really fat guy with a little nub for a c0ck, you might have 2-4" buried under fat, when that fat comes off the c0ck is revealed... So being fat is really stupid...
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.