"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Losing Track of Time during Sex?

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The other night after I had sex my girl passed out at 9:05pm.

I was trying to recall how long we had sex for, and could not. However, I remembered I had taken a photo immediately before - it was time stamped 7:25pm (I double checked the time zone).

I realized we had sex continuously for about 100 straight minutes but it seemed more like maybe 20 minutes - almost as if I fell asleep and woke up and lost track of time. No wonder why she said she was sore after only one time (I was actually about to continue when she passed out).

I remember years ago when a girl told me she came and I said "That was fast" and she said "What do you mean? You went for a long time" but it only seemed like a minute to me.

Has this ever happened to you? Did you ever lose track of time this way during sex? It might be worth noting the start and stop times next time as this might be common.
 

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bigneil said:
The other night after I had sex my girl passed out at 9:05pm.

I was trying to recall how long we had sex for, and could not. However, I remembered I had taken a photo immediately before - it was time stamped 7:25pm (I double checked the time zone).

I realized we had sex continuously for about 100 straight minutes but it seemed more like maybe 20 minutes - almost as if I fell asleep and woke up and lost track of time. No wonder why she said she was sore after only one time (I was actually about to continue when she passed out).

I remember years ago when a girl told me she came and I said "That was fast" and she said "What do you mean? You went for a long time" but it only seemed like a minute to me.

Has this ever happened to you? Did you ever lose track of time this way during sex? It might be worth noting the start and stop times next time as this might be common.
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... el oh el
 
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lol and everyone was supporting bigneil when i called for his ban. oh well. ive learned to accept him as he is now lol. no hate.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This article refers to the "time dilation" effect, which can work both ways.

The average sex act lasts about 6 minutes. More than 30 minutes can be considered too long (but this girl had a river of juice flowing down her leg at the end, something I hadn't seen with her before).

Per this article, on average women want 7 more minutes of foreplay and 11 more minutes of sex than average.

https://www.thecut.com/2015/09/how-long-should-sex-actually-last.html
 
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bigneil said:
This article refers to the "time dilation" effect, which can work both ways.

The average sex act lasts about 6 minutes. More than 30 minutes can be considered too long (but this girl had a river of juice flowing down her leg at the end, something I hadn't seen with her before).

Per this article, on average women want 7 more minutes of foreplay and 11 more minutes of sex than average.

https://www.thecut.com/2015/09/how-long-should-sex-actually-last.html
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Thanks for the report Bigneil! Im going to set my alarms on my phone to make sure i hit that 7 extra minutes of foreplay mark. I think this study is really great and im sure they had some great data on timing peoples sex sessions!
 
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bigneil said:
The other night after I had sex my girl passed out at 9:05pm.

I was trying to recall how long we had sex for, and could not. However, I remembered I had taken a photo immediately before - it was time stamped 7:25pm (I double checked the time zone).

I realized we had sex continuously for about 100 straight minutes but it seemed more like maybe 20 minutes - almost as if I fell asleep and woke up and lost track of time. No wonder why she said she was sore after only one time (I was actually about to continue when she passed out).

I remember years ago when a girl told me she came and I said "That was fast" and she said "What do you mean? You went for a long time" but it only seemed like a minute to me.

Has this ever happened to you? Did you ever lose track of time this way during sex? It might be worth noting the start and stop times next time as this might be common.
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Story reads like a commercial of Alex Jones super male vitality horny goat weed.

Ever had so much sex you completely lost track of time?

Super Male Vitality horny goat weed!
 
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I did take Super Male Vitality from Infowars. This article talks about having sex for too long.
http://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/
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Thanks for the report Bigneil! Im going to set my alarms on my phone to make sure i hit that 7 extra minutes of foreplay mark. I think this study is really great and im sure they had some great data on timing peoples sex sessions!
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I used to set my oven timer for 15 minutes when I went down on a bisexual girl back in 1993. I would wake up with a sore tongue the next morning.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Man you've got a lot of extra time on your hands for looking up random statistics
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Yes, at least 100 minutes. Some might consider the optimal amount of time to have sex to be important in seduction.

According to that article, I went long enough to make Kayne blush.

"Do you smoke after sex?"
"Sometimes, why?"
"Use more lubrication!"
 
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bigneil said:
Yes, at least 100 minutes. Some might consider the optimal amount of time to have sex to be important in seduction.

According to that article, I went long enough to make Kayne blush.

"Do you smoke after sex?"
"Sometimes, why?"
"Use more lubrication!"
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Is Kanye West some stud or something?

I highly doubt that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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bigneil said:
The other night after I had sex my girl passed out at 9:05pm.

I was trying to recall how long we had sex for, and could not. However, I remembered I had taken a photo immediately before - it was time stamped 7:25pm (I double checked the time zone).

I realized we had sex continuously for about 100 straight minutes but it seemed more like maybe 20 minutes - almost as if I fell asleep and woke up and lost track of time. No wonder why she said she was sore after only one time (I was actually about to continue when she passed out).

I remember years ago when a girl told me she came and I said "That was fast" and she said "What do you mean? You went for a long time" but it only seemed like a minute to me.

Has this ever happened to you? Did you ever lose track of time this way during sex? It might be worth noting the start and stop times next time as this might be common.
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well i'm suprised, I though she would control the time more, maybe she really likes you
 
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What kind of pervert are you?
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LESSON 101...... BPD traits.

Redirect and distract, be dishonest and switch the attention to shame and blame the other..


This is without a doubt evidence this guy is a BPD.
 
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This is without a doubt evidence this guy is a BPD.
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Wow exhausted even accuses MEN who don't find him attractive as having BPD. Now I've seen it all.

What category of deviant do you put someone who makes arbitrary claims of child molestation by rounding age 22 down to age 15? Was that a Freudian slip?

@exhausted never got over his BPD ex (meanwhile I saw mine two days ago and she submitted, and I was never exhausted).

I'll let you get back to weeping.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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