"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Loser man is "tired of this sheet"
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bible_Belt
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Your grandparents are the reason the U.S. isn't in a recession right now. That won't last forever | Fortune
"People aged 55 and over own 73% of the nation’s entire wealth, and 31% of U.S. wealth is owned by people aged 70 or older"
BillyPilgrim
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Epstein list? Here's a war with Iran. Just be happy you don't live someplace being bombed!
BillyPilgrim
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LOL check out the top comment in the video
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They got money for war
But can't feed the poor
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Travel memoir21
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See that’s the thing, crap might hit the fan real soon so ya gotta have a survival or bug out strategy in place. That would be smart these days, probably own a shotgun, an assault rifle and two months supply of food.
taiyuu_otoko
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The post WWII economic boom was a one-off event that was absolutely unsustainable.
It wasn't some forever guarantee that all you need to do is show up and study what they tell you in school and you're magically guaranteed an easy life working at the easiest job you can get.
Just the existence of a middle class is very rare and short lived.
Things are mean reverting to how they've always been.
Suck it up, buttercups.
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Luckily I'm not in either of those categories.
Bible_Belt
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Dammit they told us that it would be different this time.
What you're saying is actually fascinating. I've never heard that before, the idea of a middle class being antithetical to human nature and group behavior. Largely history does support that idea, but there have been so many lost civilizations with no historical record, so for them it's all conjecture. But it's an interesting thought, that there have always been the rich and the poor, but not much in between.