"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Looks like they're starting to figure it out; Fox News says most men only want a woman who's nice.

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www.foxnews.com/opinion/2017/05/11/most-men-just-want-woman-whos-nice.html

They've got just about everything right in here to be honest. It's crazy how they need to make a news article about it as if it's just some big breakthrough in the dating community. But at least the shifting now and we can see that this is just the beginning for the media to say that women should take some responsibility in the relationship.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well probably due to the huge rise in Cluster B's. Their dangerous mind games is starting to come to the surface.
 

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At some point women wanted nice men, but they sure as fvck didn't care working for it. Now men want nice women and sure as fvck don't care working for it.

If everyone turned their fvcking fingers around to point at themselves rather than everyone else, then we might actually progress in society.
 

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At some point women wanted nice men, but they sure as fvck didn't care working for it. Now men want nice women and sure as fvck don't care working for it.

If everyone turned their fvcking fingers around to point at themselves rather than everyone else, then we might actually progress in society.
Yeah basically. It's like the saying about how everyone is trying to find the right person,but no one is trying to actually BE the right person.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah basically. It's like the saying about how everyone is trying to find the right person,but no one is trying to actually BE the right person.
Mr. Nice Guy? You know, the one that never gets laid.
 

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Nobody ever got laid by being nice.. they got laid by being "good"

Over time, society concept of nice became shallow.. a nice man used to be a good man or so it was perceived

Bad boys always got more laid with the younger crowd due to being "dominant in confidence"

However, they usually were also considered "losers"

In a society where a women value was considered also on her "boyfriend" value.

Of course the lady wanted to have a "nice" or "good" guy. They tend to win in term of society value.

Now in modern society, insta-love, insta-selfie etc.. where women have no more "limitations" to their contribution. Dating become hell of a game.

However in life.. there are always key éléments that never change: The best win, action over words, work to make it happen.

I am amazed how my générations have no définition of "working your relationship".. guys/girls want the perfect fairy tale instantly.

If they findout, they have to work it.. they eject. So many relations last so few months etc.. A LTR is work.

It just has worst as the person who makes à baby within the first months lol (sûre with âge we know what we want but you need time to know the other person)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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