"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Looks like they're starting to figure it out; Fox News says most men only want a woman who's nice.

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www.foxnews.com/opinion/2017/05/11/most-men-just-want-woman-whos-nice.html

They've got just about everything right in here to be honest. It's crazy how they need to make a news article about it as if it's just some big breakthrough in the dating community. But at least the shifting now and we can see that this is just the beginning for the media to say that women should take some responsibility in the relationship.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well probably due to the huge rise in Cluster B's. Their dangerous mind games is starting to come to the surface.
 

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At some point women wanted nice men, but they sure as fvck didn't care working for it. Now men want nice women and sure as fvck don't care working for it.

If everyone turned their fvcking fingers around to point at themselves rather than everyone else, then we might actually progress in society.
 

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At some point women wanted nice men, but they sure as fvck didn't care working for it. Now men want nice women and sure as fvck don't care working for it.

If everyone turned their fvcking fingers around to point at themselves rather than everyone else, then we might actually progress in society.
Yeah basically. It's like the saying about how everyone is trying to find the right person,but no one is trying to actually BE the right person.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah basically. It's like the saying about how everyone is trying to find the right person,but no one is trying to actually BE the right person.
Mr. Nice Guy? You know, the one that never gets laid.
 

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Nobody ever got laid by being nice.. they got laid by being "good"

Over time, society concept of nice became shallow.. a nice man used to be a good man or so it was perceived

Bad boys always got more laid with the younger crowd due to being "dominant in confidence"

However, they usually were also considered "losers"

In a society where a women value was considered also on her "boyfriend" value.

Of course the lady wanted to have a "nice" or "good" guy. They tend to win in term of society value.

Now in modern society, insta-love, insta-selfie etc.. where women have no more "limitations" to their contribution. Dating become hell of a game.

However in life.. there are always key éléments that never change: The best win, action over words, work to make it happen.

I am amazed how my générations have no définition of "working your relationship".. guys/girls want the perfect fairy tale instantly.

If they findout, they have to work it.. they eject. So many relations last so few months etc.. A LTR is work.

It just has worst as the person who makes à baby within the first months lol (sûre with âge we know what we want but you need time to know the other person)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

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