Its not that black and white, physical attraction is too complex to classify. Sure alot of girls will agree that Brad Pitt or George Clooney is the ultimate good looking guy, but alot will tell you, those men are not their type. Girls like Paris hilton, Jessica Aba, Jessica Simpson, ect.. are not really attractive to me. They are plain, flawless, and boring. Girls think the same way in this regard. Certain features are attractive to certain girls. Some guys like Italian women cause they have big noses, some girls like men with larger noses, some guys like huge orioles while some men like misquito bites. Its all subjective. The ones you have to cipher out are the people that base looks solely off what society thinks is attractive.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Looks: How do you know where you stand?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
brucevangeorge
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Well, I'M a legend in MY own mind.
I don't know about you guys but I am an 11 on the hotornot scale.
Just joking! I really don't care.
I don't know about you guys but I am an 11 on the hotornot scale.
Just joking! I really don't care.
Dark Haired Alpha
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You should.brucevangeorge said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Haha, NO. You SHOULDN'T. When you're out on a job interview, on a date, working the field, etc. True, you should worry about looking your best. This only means making sure your hair looks nice, making sure you have the right outfit for the occasion, etc.Dark Haired Alpha said:
You should NOT worry about looking hot. Does she think I'm hot? Is her boyfriend jealous of my really good looks? Am I a perfect 10? What are we, male models? What are we competing for the cover of Mens Health?
Concentrate on living. Concentrate on dressing nice. Concentrate on making your move. Concentrate on the first kiss. Don't concentrate on "being hot". There's nothing you can do to change your all around appearence. You can only improve what's already there by letting it out of it's cage (working out, brushing your teeth, combing your hair, etc). You cannot change what's not there. Therefor, you should not worry about being hot. It will make you depressed, and hurt you in the long run if you keep worrying about what you are on the scale.
i love my face, somtimes i look in the mirror n wanna kiss myself
but my body is lacking
dunno if i'll ever be able to get my body to whbere i want it to be
**** isnt that important though g. if u sit around looking in a mirror all day u'll go crazy. just take care of urself and you'll be fine. TAKE CARE OF URSELF. that doesn't mean suckin back 5 cheeseburgers on the way from the gym and calling it a day. get ur **** straight g and you'll feel/look better.
but my body is lacking
dunno if i'll ever be able to get my body to whbere i want it to be**** isnt that important though g. if u sit around looking in a mirror all day u'll go crazy. just take care of urself and you'll be fine. TAKE CARE OF URSELF. that doesn't mean suckin back 5 cheeseburgers on the way from the gym and calling it a day. get ur **** straight g and you'll feel/look better.
Dark Haired Alpha
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YES, he should. Everyone should know where he stands, because it's VERY beneficial for the game. If you don't KNOW where you stand, you should CARE until you find out.thederekeffect1 said:
thederekeffect1
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1) Why is it that everytime I say something with the word "no" like "No, it doesn't matter"... There has to be SOMEONE on this board who disagree's with me and has to have the SAME EXACT RESPONSE as the last person.Dark Haired Alpha said:
2) What the hell are you talking about? Very beneficial to the game? It doesn't mean **** to the game. Unless you plan on limiting yourself. "Let's see, I'm an eight... She looks like a 7... That other girl over there is definatly a 9.5... The 9.5 is giving me all the signals... The 7 gave me a few signals earlier... I see an opening to approach the 9.5, but I'm only an eight so I'll go talk to the 7."
... Pathetic. Stop caring about your looks and grow some balls.
Dr Beard said.....
'Look in the mirror dildo!'
ethnomethodologist said....
'Those are the three guys closest to being DJ's that responded.'
That will probably be the first and last time DrBeard get's likened to a DJ, good call...............!
LOL
'Look in the mirror dildo!'
ethnomethodologist said....
'Those are the three guys closest to being DJ's that responded.'
That will probably be the first and last time DrBeard get's likened to a DJ, good call...............!
LOL
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
insanity
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i hear from girls that i'm goodlooking. and my girl brags me up. but i don't think looks had anything to do with me getting girlfriends. i think it's all the fun things i bring to a relationship. you can't have fun from looks alone!
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You have to adjust your approaching to your looks. If you're hot, no big deal, almost any approach will work. If you are not, for example cold approaches will probably not work very good for you. And the worse looking you are, the more you have to focus on the way of approaching. Knowing "where you stand" is like a starting point.thederekeffect1 said:
Dark Haired Alpha
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heh it was discussed alreadyG-Man UK said: