"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Looks: How do you know where you stand?

saki

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 27, 2004
Messages
190
Reaction score
1
Location
kali
Its not that black and white, physical attraction is too complex to classify. Sure alot of girls will agree that Brad Pitt or George Clooney is the ultimate good looking guy, but alot will tell you, those men are not their type. Girls like Paris hilton, Jessica Aba, Jessica Simpson, ect.. are not really attractive to me. They are plain, flawless, and boring. Girls think the same way in this regard. Certain features are attractive to certain girls. Some guys like Italian women cause they have big noses, some girls like men with larger noses, some guys like huge orioles while some men like misquito bites. Its all subjective. The ones you have to cipher out are the people that base looks solely off what society thinks is attractive.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

killbill

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2005
Messages
257
Reaction score
0
Age
39
I think everyone should think there good looking. You have to believe you are.
 

Juan_Man

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 3, 2001
Messages
1,103
Reaction score
28
lnghrngeek said:
I got a 5.7 on hotornot.com. Does that count?
Based off of how many votes?
 
Joined
Aug 8, 2005
Messages
1,063
Reaction score
5
Age
39
Location
The Cold North.
Well, I'M a legend in MY own mind.

I don't know about you guys but I am an 11 on the hotornot scale.


Just joking! I really don't care.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

thederekeffect1

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 15, 2005
Messages
515
Reaction score
7
Age
41
Location
Duluth, MN
Dark Haired Alpha said:
You should.
Haha, NO. You SHOULDN'T. When you're out on a job interview, on a date, working the field, etc. True, you should worry about looking your best. This only means making sure your hair looks nice, making sure you have the right outfit for the occasion, etc.

You should NOT worry about looking hot. Does she think I'm hot? Is her boyfriend jealous of my really good looks? Am I a perfect 10? What are we, male models? What are we competing for the cover of Mens Health?

Concentrate on living. Concentrate on dressing nice. Concentrate on making your move. Concentrate on the first kiss. Don't concentrate on "being hot". There's nothing you can do to change your all around appearence. You can only improve what's already there by letting it out of it's cage (working out, brushing your teeth, combing your hair, etc). You cannot change what's not there. Therefor, you should not worry about being hot. It will make you depressed, and hurt you in the long run if you keep worrying about what you are on the scale.
 

Soprano

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2005
Messages
715
Reaction score
3
i love my face, somtimes i look in the mirror n wanna kiss myself

but my body is lacking :( dunno if i'll ever be able to get my body to whbere i want it to be

**** isnt that important though g. if u sit around looking in a mirror all day u'll go crazy. just take care of urself and you'll be fine. TAKE CARE OF URSELF. that doesn't mean suckin back 5 cheeseburgers on the way from the gym and calling it a day. get ur **** straight g and you'll feel/look better.
 
Joined
Jun 27, 2005
Messages
126
Reaction score
1
thederekeffect1 said:
Haha, NO. You SHOULDN'T.
YES, he should. Everyone should know where he stands, because it's VERY beneficial for the game. If you don't KNOW where you stand, you should CARE until you find out.
 

thederekeffect1

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 15, 2005
Messages
515
Reaction score
7
Age
41
Location
Duluth, MN
Dark Haired Alpha said:
YES, he should. Everyone should know where he stands, because it's VERY beneficial for the game. If you don't KNOW where you stand, you should CARE until you find out.
1) Why is it that everytime I say something with the word "no" like "No, it doesn't matter"... There has to be SOMEONE on this board who disagree's with me and has to have the SAME EXACT RESPONSE as the last person.

2) What the hell are you talking about? Very beneficial to the game? It doesn't mean **** to the game. Unless you plan on limiting yourself. "Let's see, I'm an eight... She looks like a 7... That other girl over there is definatly a 9.5... The 9.5 is giving me all the signals... The 7 gave me a few signals earlier... I see an opening to approach the 9.5, but I'm only an eight so I'll go talk to the 7."

... Pathetic. Stop caring about your looks and grow some balls.
 

G-Man UK

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2005
Messages
110
Reaction score
0
Location
UK
Dr Beard said.....

'Look in the mirror dildo!'

ethnomethodologist said....

'Those are the three guys closest to being DJ's that responded.'

That will probably be the first and last time DrBeard get's likened to a DJ, good call...............!

LOL
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

insanity

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 19, 2006
Messages
529
Reaction score
3
Location
place to place.
i hear from girls that i'm goodlooking. and my girl brags me up. but i don't think looks had anything to do with me getting girlfriends. i think it's all the fun things i bring to a relationship. you can't have fun from looks alone!
 
Joined
Jun 27, 2005
Messages
126
Reaction score
1
thederekeffect1 said:
What the hell are you talking about? Very beneficial to the game? It doesn't mean **** to the game. Unless you plan on limiting yourself. "Let's see, I'm an eight... She looks like a 7... That other girl over there is definatly a 9.5... The 9.5 is giving me all the signals... The 7 gave me a few signals earlier... I see an opening to approach the 9.5, but I'm only an eight so I'll go talk to the 7."
You have to adjust your approaching to your looks. If you're hot, no big deal, almost any approach will work. If you are not, for example cold approaches will probably not work very good for you. And the worse looking you are, the more you have to focus on the way of approaching. Knowing "where you stand" is like a starting point.
 
Joined
Jun 27, 2005
Messages
126
Reaction score
1
G-Man UK said:
Dr Beard said.....

'Look in the mirror dildo!'

ethnomethodologist said....

'Those are the three guys closest to being DJ's that responded.'

That will probably be the first and last time DrBeard get's likened to a DJ, good call...............!

LOL
heh it was discussed already
 
Top