Its not that black and white, physical attraction is too complex to classify. Sure alot of girls will agree that Brad Pitt or George Clooney is the ultimate good looking guy, but alot will tell you, those men are not their type. Girls like Paris hilton, Jessica Aba, Jessica Simpson, ect.. are not really attractive to me. They are plain, flawless, and boring. Girls think the same way in this regard. Certain features are attractive to certain girls. Some guys like Italian women cause they have big noses, some girls like men with larger noses, some guys like huge orioles while some men like misquito bites. Its all subjective. The ones you have to cipher out are the people that base looks solely off what society thinks is attractive.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Looks: How do you know where you stand?
- Thread starter Juan_Man
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
brucevangeorge
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Well, I'M a legend in MY own mind.
I don't know about you guys but I am an 11 on the hotornot scale.
Just joking! I really don't care.
I don't know about you guys but I am an 11 on the hotornot scale.
Just joking! I really don't care.
Dark Haired Alpha
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You should.brucevangeorge said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Haha, NO. You SHOULDN'T. When you're out on a job interview, on a date, working the field, etc. True, you should worry about looking your best. This only means making sure your hair looks nice, making sure you have the right outfit for the occasion, etc.Dark Haired Alpha said:
You should NOT worry about looking hot. Does she think I'm hot? Is her boyfriend jealous of my really good looks? Am I a perfect 10? What are we, male models? What are we competing for the cover of Mens Health?
Concentrate on living. Concentrate on dressing nice. Concentrate on making your move. Concentrate on the first kiss. Don't concentrate on "being hot". There's nothing you can do to change your all around appearence. You can only improve what's already there by letting it out of it's cage (working out, brushing your teeth, combing your hair, etc). You cannot change what's not there. Therefor, you should not worry about being hot. It will make you depressed, and hurt you in the long run if you keep worrying about what you are on the scale.
i love my face, somtimes i look in the mirror n wanna kiss myself
but my body is lacking
dunno if i'll ever be able to get my body to whbere i want it to be
**** isnt that important though g. if u sit around looking in a mirror all day u'll go crazy. just take care of urself and you'll be fine. TAKE CARE OF URSELF. that doesn't mean suckin back 5 cheeseburgers on the way from the gym and calling it a day. get ur **** straight g and you'll feel/look better.
but my body is lacking
dunno if i'll ever be able to get my body to whbere i want it to be**** isnt that important though g. if u sit around looking in a mirror all day u'll go crazy. just take care of urself and you'll be fine. TAKE CARE OF URSELF. that doesn't mean suckin back 5 cheeseburgers on the way from the gym and calling it a day. get ur **** straight g and you'll feel/look better.
Dark Haired Alpha
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YES, he should. Everyone should know where he stands, because it's VERY beneficial for the game. If you don't KNOW where you stand, you should CARE until you find out.thederekeffect1 said:
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
1) Why is it that everytime I say something with the word "no" like "No, it doesn't matter"... There has to be SOMEONE on this board who disagree's with me and has to have the SAME EXACT RESPONSE as the last person.Dark Haired Alpha said:
2) What the hell are you talking about? Very beneficial to the game? It doesn't mean **** to the game. Unless you plan on limiting yourself. "Let's see, I'm an eight... She looks like a 7... That other girl over there is definatly a 9.5... The 9.5 is giving me all the signals... The 7 gave me a few signals earlier... I see an opening to approach the 9.5, but I'm only an eight so I'll go talk to the 7."
... Pathetic. Stop caring about your looks and grow some balls.
Dr Beard said.....
'Look in the mirror dildo!'
ethnomethodologist said....
'Those are the three guys closest to being DJ's that responded.'
That will probably be the first and last time DrBeard get's likened to a DJ, good call...............!
LOL
'Look in the mirror dildo!'
ethnomethodologist said....
'Those are the three guys closest to being DJ's that responded.'
That will probably be the first and last time DrBeard get's likened to a DJ, good call...............!
LOL
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
insanity
Master Don Juan
i hear from girls that i'm goodlooking. and my girl brags me up. but i don't think looks had anything to do with me getting girlfriends. i think it's all the fun things i bring to a relationship. you can't have fun from looks alone!
Dark Haired Alpha
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You have to adjust your approaching to your looks. If you're hot, no big deal, almost any approach will work. If you are not, for example cold approaches will probably not work very good for you. And the worse looking you are, the more you have to focus on the way of approaching. Knowing "where you stand" is like a starting point.thederekeffect1 said:
Dark Haired Alpha
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heh it was discussed alreadyG-Man UK said: