"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Looks and "facial structure"
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
This is all evident from the fact that if you have either a lot of money, leadership skills, or powerful words, you can still get whatever you want in life. Money buys what you need, power gathers what you need, and words draw what you need.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
in terms of physical appeal/attraction, IT IS the basis for initial attraction which is undeniable. However everything afterwards, CAN be based on personality, social status, wealth (power).ethnomethodologist said:
Im surprised you guys put voice last. It has a lot more of a subconscious influence than many of you realize. Studies show that men with deeper voices, are deemed more dominant and taller.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
Attraction based on looks is a petty way to go about things, society and fashion have already taken the first steps towards creating an even playing field for seduction. Evolution is still weening the bad traits, and technology is erasing visual traces.
Voice in terms of the quality, is in most cases, the last indicator of health and well being. BigFoot pretty much nailed the order of importance, anything else is just a girls nitpicking and judgemental attitude in the unessential, of course barring any obvious physical abnormalities.
107% of studies are based upon surveys, ALL of which are people who want to say they haven't finished highschool and make over 250 grand a year. Don't believe those studies, they are made by AFC's who just want to have something provocative to say to their friends. The only thing they are good for are teasing people, and making them feel bad
