"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Looks and "facial structure"
- Thread starter DJnoob
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
This is all evident from the fact that if you have either a lot of money, leadership skills, or powerful words, you can still get whatever you want in life. Money buys what you need, power gathers what you need, and words draw what you need.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
in terms of physical appeal/attraction, IT IS the basis for initial attraction which is undeniable. However everything afterwards, CAN be based on personality, social status, wealth (power).ethnomethodologist said:
Im surprised you guys put voice last. It has a lot more of a subconscious influence than many of you realize. Studies show that men with deeper voices, are deemed more dominant and taller.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
Attraction based on looks is a petty way to go about things, society and fashion have already taken the first steps towards creating an even playing field for seduction. Evolution is still weening the bad traits, and technology is erasing visual traces.
Voice in terms of the quality, is in most cases, the last indicator of health and well being. BigFoot pretty much nailed the order of importance, anything else is just a girls nitpicking and judgemental attitude in the unessential, of course barring any obvious physical abnormalities.
107% of studies are based upon surveys, ALL of which are people who want to say they haven't finished highschool and make over 250 grand a year. Don't believe those studies, they are made by AFC's who just want to have something provocative to say to their friends. The only thing they are good for are teasing people, and making them feel bad
