"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Looks and "facial structure"
- Thread starter DJnoob
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
This is all evident from the fact that if you have either a lot of money, leadership skills, or powerful words, you can still get whatever you want in life. Money buys what you need, power gathers what you need, and words draw what you need.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
in terms of physical appeal/attraction, IT IS the basis for initial attraction which is undeniable. However everything afterwards, CAN be based on personality, social status, wealth (power).ethnomethodologist said:
Im surprised you guys put voice last. It has a lot more of a subconscious influence than many of you realize. Studies show that men with deeper voices, are deemed more dominant and taller.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
Attraction based on looks is a petty way to go about things, society and fashion have already taken the first steps towards creating an even playing field for seduction. Evolution is still weening the bad traits, and technology is erasing visual traces.
Voice in terms of the quality, is in most cases, the last indicator of health and well being. BigFoot pretty much nailed the order of importance, anything else is just a girls nitpicking and judgemental attitude in the unessential, of course barring any obvious physical abnormalities.
107% of studies are based upon surveys, ALL of which are people who want to say they haven't finished highschool and make over 250 grand a year. Don't believe those studies, they are made by AFC's who just want to have something provocative to say to their friends. The only thing they are good for are teasing people, and making them feel bad
