"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Looks and "facial structure"

DJnoob

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i think women care about the looks, but i think its the facial structure that women dont care about as much. I think thats what we are trying to define here in terms of "looks". What do you guys think
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Juan_Man

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Everything matters. Here is my order of what I think girls find important.

1. Facial structure
2. Height
3. Build
4. Body weight
5. Voice (very overlooked)
 

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Looks do matter alot initially. I would say it's something like this:
1. Height
2. Smile
3. Eyes
4. Build
5. Voice
How you dress is important too.
 

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Depends on the girl though right?
I know a lot of really beautiful girls that often go for more quiet types.. the types of guys you would expect to be with hot girls.
 

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Height doesn't matter MUCH, smile doesn't matter MUCH, Eyes don't matter MUCH, Build doesn't matter MUCH, and voice doesn't matter MUCH.

This is all evident from the fact that if you have either a lot of money, leadership skills, or powerful words, you can still get whatever you want in life. Money buys what you need, power gathers what you need, and words draw what you need.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ethnomethodologist said:
Height doesn't matter MUCH, smile doesn't matter MUCH, Eyes don't matter MUCH, Build doesn't matter MUCH, and voice doesn't matter MUCH.

This is all evident from the fact that if you have either a lot of money, leadership skills, or powerful words, you can still get whatever you want in life. Money buys what you need, power gathers what you need, and words draw what you need.
in terms of physical appeal/attraction, IT IS the basis for initial attraction which is undeniable. However everything afterwards, CAN be based on personality, social status, wealth (power).

Im surprised you guys put voice last. It has a lot more of a subconscious influence than many of you realize. Studies show that men with deeper voices, are deemed more dominant and taller.
 

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Ears, hair, suit, shoes, height, weight, body language, handsIf you were confirmed as the president of the united states, and nobody had ever seen you, you could easily lay an HB10 everynight, regardless of what you looked or sounded like, or how intelligent you really are.

Attraction based on looks is a petty way to go about things, society and fashion have already taken the first steps towards creating an even playing field for seduction. Evolution is still weening the bad traits, and technology is erasing visual traces.

Voice in terms of the quality, is in most cases, the last indicator of health and well being. BigFoot pretty much nailed the order of importance, anything else is just a girls nitpicking and judgemental attitude in the unessential, of course barring any obvious physical abnormalities.

107% of studies are based upon surveys, ALL of which are people who want to say they haven't finished highschool and make over 250 grand a year. Don't believe those studies, they are made by AFC's who just want to have something provocative to say to their friends. The only thing they are good for are teasing people, and making them feel bad:p
 
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