"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Looks and "facial structure"
- Thread starter DJnoob
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
This is all evident from the fact that if you have either a lot of money, leadership skills, or powerful words, you can still get whatever you want in life. Money buys what you need, power gathers what you need, and words draw what you need.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
in terms of physical appeal/attraction, IT IS the basis for initial attraction which is undeniable. However everything afterwards, CAN be based on personality, social status, wealth (power).ethnomethodologist said:
Im surprised you guys put voice last. It has a lot more of a subconscious influence than many of you realize. Studies show that men with deeper voices, are deemed more dominant and taller.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
Attraction based on looks is a petty way to go about things, society and fashion have already taken the first steps towards creating an even playing field for seduction. Evolution is still weening the bad traits, and technology is erasing visual traces.
Voice in terms of the quality, is in most cases, the last indicator of health and well being. BigFoot pretty much nailed the order of importance, anything else is just a girls nitpicking and judgemental attitude in the unessential, of course barring any obvious physical abnormalities.
107% of studies are based upon surveys, ALL of which are people who want to say they haven't finished highschool and make over 250 grand a year. Don't believe those studies, they are made by AFC's who just want to have something provocative to say to their friends. The only thing they are good for are teasing people, and making them feel bad
