"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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looking your best all the time?

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for instance, on a normal day going to school or work, should you try to look your best. i normally don't gel my hair because it seems as if i'm making too much of an effort, unless i'm going out at night

also, i've started wearing much more casual clothing, like just a tshirt and jeans or trackies to uni. do u think i should make more of an effort than this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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gel is gay. makes your hair look wet all day. very gay.
 

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Originally posted by Tails
gel is gay. makes your hair look wet all day. very gay.
wax then
 

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good boy. wax is good. even though i don't use it. friend uses it. makes his hair look natural but styled.
 

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so should i use wax everyday to uni or is that overthetop?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lol. err dude... don't do things you don't want to just because of looking good for others.

i dress up nice for myself not for others. they can kiss my ass. or if i don't shave and i think i should? i don't. i will shave when i feel like it.

so don't do things just because you think other people might like what they see. but for yourself. but it's nice to look good if you wanna attract girls. just look reasonably dressed well. don't go spiking your hair with all this gelly ****. just make it look good. use wax everyday, do what YOU want. wax isn't such a bad thing. but i use conditioner for my hair cause i like the smell and it also makes it look good and styled :p
 

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I admit, I really enjoy making an effort wherever I go. I groom, wear designer aftershaves and dress well every day I leave the house. From what people have told me, I'm generally perceived as a smart and sophisticated person.

It's all about creating a lasting impression and a presence in people's minds. People automatically create their own idea of your personality and your life from your appearance alone.

Think of women you see, but have never spoken to. I'm sure you have your own idea what sort of person they are just by looking at them, no? Which of these women are more attractive?

What's more, dressing well and grooming gives me more confidence as it can affect your perception of yourself. If you start to believe you are a classy and sophisticated person, you'll find it much easier to act this way.
 
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