"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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looking your best all the time?

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for instance, on a normal day going to school or work, should you try to look your best. i normally don't gel my hair because it seems as if i'm making too much of an effort, unless i'm going out at night

also, i've started wearing much more casual clothing, like just a tshirt and jeans or trackies to uni. do u think i should make more of an effort than this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gel is gay. makes your hair look wet all day. very gay.
 

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Originally posted by Tails
gel is gay. makes your hair look wet all day. very gay.
wax then
 

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good boy. wax is good. even though i don't use it. friend uses it. makes his hair look natural but styled.
 

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so should i use wax everyday to uni or is that overthetop?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lol. err dude... don't do things you don't want to just because of looking good for others.

i dress up nice for myself not for others. they can kiss my ass. or if i don't shave and i think i should? i don't. i will shave when i feel like it.

so don't do things just because you think other people might like what they see. but for yourself. but it's nice to look good if you wanna attract girls. just look reasonably dressed well. don't go spiking your hair with all this gelly ****. just make it look good. use wax everyday, do what YOU want. wax isn't such a bad thing. but i use conditioner for my hair cause i like the smell and it also makes it look good and styled :p
 

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I admit, I really enjoy making an effort wherever I go. I groom, wear designer aftershaves and dress well every day I leave the house. From what people have told me, I'm generally perceived as a smart and sophisticated person.

It's all about creating a lasting impression and a presence in people's minds. People automatically create their own idea of your personality and your life from your appearance alone.

Think of women you see, but have never spoken to. I'm sure you have your own idea what sort of person they are just by looking at them, no? Which of these women are more attractive?

What's more, dressing well and grooming gives me more confidence as it can affect your perception of yourself. If you start to believe you are a classy and sophisticated person, you'll find it much easier to act this way.
 
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