Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Looking for help with online dating.

rrrrr

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I exchanged emails with this girl a while back. Her profile had hardly anything on it other than she's looking for a long term relationship. I wrote to her basically trying to get an idea of what she's all about. She responds and basically says she has no hobbies, and for fun likes to go out with friends and travel. She also gives me her phone number and asks me to call her. That's about it.

I have absolutely no idea where to go with this. I don't know if I should call her and ask her to lunch somewhere or try and talk to her on the phone. I know very little about her.

Any tips? I've never talked to a girl I met online and in this case I have nothing to go on.

Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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rrrrr said:
...Her profile had hardly anything on it other than she's looking for a long term relationship. I wrote to her basically trying to get an idea of what she's all about. She responds and basically says she has no hobbies, and for fun likes to go out with friends and travel. She also gives me her phone number and asks me to call her. That's about it...
So... What exactly attracts you to this woman?
 

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Here's a few tips... When she gave you her phone number, you could have said " Your giving your number to me that easy; it's gonna be a little bit harder than that for me to call you." Add a little bit of ****y humor to make her laugh. What I would do now is call her and set up a lunch date where you can get to know her. Let me know how it goes.
 

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if a chic hands her number over without even asking for it first.........odds are she is a slut. If you can handle a slut then rock on.

So when u call, suggest ever so slightly some sexual undertones to qualify this chic in the nice girl or slut category.

Make a date.........keep phone call to a minimum........DO A SEARCH FOR PHONE CALLS in this forum
 
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