"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Looking for help with online dating.

rrrrr

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I exchanged emails with this girl a while back. Her profile had hardly anything on it other than she's looking for a long term relationship. I wrote to her basically trying to get an idea of what she's all about. She responds and basically says she has no hobbies, and for fun likes to go out with friends and travel. She also gives me her phone number and asks me to call her. That's about it.

I have absolutely no idea where to go with this. I don't know if I should call her and ask her to lunch somewhere or try and talk to her on the phone. I know very little about her.

Any tips? I've never talked to a girl I met online and in this case I have nothing to go on.

Thanks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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rrrrr said:
...Her profile had hardly anything on it other than she's looking for a long term relationship. I wrote to her basically trying to get an idea of what she's all about. She responds and basically says she has no hobbies, and for fun likes to go out with friends and travel. She also gives me her phone number and asks me to call her. That's about it...
So... What exactly attracts you to this woman?
 

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Here's a few tips... When she gave you her phone number, you could have said " Your giving your number to me that easy; it's gonna be a little bit harder than that for me to call you." Add a little bit of ****y humor to make her laugh. What I would do now is call her and set up a lunch date where you can get to know her. Let me know how it goes.
 

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if a chic hands her number over without even asking for it first.........odds are she is a slut. If you can handle a slut then rock on.

So when u call, suggest ever so slightly some sexual undertones to qualify this chic in the nice girl or slut category.

Make a date.........keep phone call to a minimum........DO A SEARCH FOR PHONE CALLS in this forum
 
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