"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Looking for help with online dating.

rrrrr

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I exchanged emails with this girl a while back. Her profile had hardly anything on it other than she's looking for a long term relationship. I wrote to her basically trying to get an idea of what she's all about. She responds and basically says she has no hobbies, and for fun likes to go out with friends and travel. She also gives me her phone number and asks me to call her. That's about it.

I have absolutely no idea where to go with this. I don't know if I should call her and ask her to lunch somewhere or try and talk to her on the phone. I know very little about her.

Any tips? I've never talked to a girl I met online and in this case I have nothing to go on.

Thanks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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rrrrr said:
...Her profile had hardly anything on it other than she's looking for a long term relationship. I wrote to her basically trying to get an idea of what she's all about. She responds and basically says she has no hobbies, and for fun likes to go out with friends and travel. She also gives me her phone number and asks me to call her. That's about it...
So... What exactly attracts you to this woman?
 

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Here's a few tips... When she gave you her phone number, you could have said " Your giving your number to me that easy; it's gonna be a little bit harder than that for me to call you." Add a little bit of ****y humor to make her laugh. What I would do now is call her and set up a lunch date where you can get to know her. Let me know how it goes.
 

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if a chic hands her number over without even asking for it first.........odds are she is a slut. If you can handle a slut then rock on.

So when u call, suggest ever so slightly some sexual undertones to qualify this chic in the nice girl or slut category.

Make a date.........keep phone call to a minimum........DO A SEARCH FOR PHONE CALLS in this forum
 
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