Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just stating what the post said brotha. Makes sense in a way, most girls just want attention and sex.Game_going_good said:Lol, thats a lame saying.
Just because she happens to wear heels and a colored shirt doesn't necessarily mean she's looking for sex. Anyways, sorry, don't know of a link to that post.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Times never wasted wasted if you give it a shot. Its all good bro, thanks anywayGame_going_good said:True, almost every girl wants attention. And most want sex(at the very least, s-luts do anyways). But it's really not rational to hook up with a girl looking forward to sex because she happened to be wearing heels and a bright red shirt.
Because when this fails, you realise you wasted time for nothing.
Anyways, like before, sorry, never read anything like it. Maybe someone else will help you out.
Not at all. If I learn something new even if the outcome didn't come out to be the way I wanted it to, im happy.Game_going_good said:When you do something, or "give it a shot", and the outcome is not what you expected, or "wanted", than that time is "wasted". Because you spent time doing something, "trying" to achieve something you "didnt" get anyways.