Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Just stating what the post said brotha. Makes sense in a way, most girls just want attention and sex.Game_going_good said:Lol, thats a lame saying.
Just because she happens to wear heels and a colored shirt doesn't necessarily mean she's looking for sex. Anyways, sorry, don't know of a link to that post.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Times never wasted wasted if you give it a shot. Its all good bro, thanks anywayGame_going_good said:True, almost every girl wants attention. And most want sex(at the very least, s-luts do anyways). But it's really not rational to hook up with a girl looking forward to sex because she happened to be wearing heels and a bright red shirt.
Because when this fails, you realise you wasted time for nothing.
Anyways, like before, sorry, never read anything like it. Maybe someone else will help you out.
Not at all. If I learn something new even if the outcome didn't come out to be the way I wanted it to, im happy.Game_going_good said:When you do something, or "give it a shot", and the outcome is not what you expected, or "wanted", than that time is "wasted". Because you spent time doing something, "trying" to achieve something you "didnt" get anyways.