"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Just because she happens to wear heels and a colored shirt doesn't necessarily mean she's looking for sex. Anyways, sorry, don't know of a link to that post.
Crissco
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Just stating what the post said brotha. Makes sense in a way, most girls just want attention and sex.Game_going_good said:Lol, thats a lame saying.
Just because she happens to wear heels and a colored shirt doesn't necessarily mean she's looking for sex. Anyways, sorry, don't know of a link to that post.
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Because when this fails, you realise you wasted time for nothing.
Anyways, like before, sorry, never read anything like it. Maybe someone else will help you out.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Crissco
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Times never wasted wasted if you give it a shot. Its all good bro, thanks anywayGame_going_good said:True, almost every girl wants attention. And most want sex(at the very least, s-luts do anyways). But it's really not rational to hook up with a girl looking forward to sex because she happened to be wearing heels and a bright red shirt.
Because when this fails, you realise you wasted time for nothing.
Anyways, like before, sorry, never read anything like it. Maybe someone else will help you out.
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Not at all. If I learn something new even if the outcome didn't come out to be the way I wanted it to, im happy.Game_going_good said:When you do something, or "give it a shot", and the outcome is not what you expected, or "wanted", than that time is "wasted". Because you spent time doing something, "trying" to achieve something you "didnt" get anyways.