Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Just stating what the post said brotha. Makes sense in a way, most girls just want attention and sex.Game_going_good said:Lol, thats a lame saying.
Just because she happens to wear heels and a colored shirt doesn't necessarily mean she's looking for sex. Anyways, sorry, don't know of a link to that post.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Times never wasted wasted if you give it a shot. Its all good bro, thanks anywayGame_going_good said:True, almost every girl wants attention. And most want sex(at the very least, s-luts do anyways). But it's really not rational to hook up with a girl looking forward to sex because she happened to be wearing heels and a bright red shirt.
Because when this fails, you realise you wasted time for nothing.
Anyways, like before, sorry, never read anything like it. Maybe someone else will help you out.
Not at all. If I learn something new even if the outcome didn't come out to be the way I wanted it to, im happy.Game_going_good said:When you do something, or "give it a shot", and the outcome is not what you expected, or "wanted", than that time is "wasted". Because you spent time doing something, "trying" to achieve something you "didnt" get anyways.