Recently I met a girl, probably a 9, and called her to schedule a date. It was scheduled but at the day of she called and cancelled saying she was incredibly sick. She sounded really bad so I went along with it, giving her the benefit of the doubt. She called me the next week and rescheduled apologizing for it. So far so good. The date itself i had planned on being an hour and a half, but it went so incredibly well with her basically throwing herself at me so it ended up being much longer. I worked my game and she was basically forcing me to kiss her. Four days after that amazing first date i called her. She didn't answer. She called me back but i missed the call. I then returned the call later that evening, she sounded sick again she sorta mumbled how she wasn't feeling well again, and how she was on the phone with an important phone call. And then she hung up. If and when should i call again. Maybe i just caught her at a bad time? Any advice would be awesome. Thank you
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
red flag!
sounds like a headcase to me. these kind of girls are too unpredictable, if you follow her, she's gonna drive you nuts. i try to stay away from girls like these, they're too mentally unstable, so they could be carrying a lot of baggage.
sounds like a headcase to me. these kind of girls are too unpredictable, if you follow her, she's gonna drive you nuts. i try to stay away from girls like these, they're too mentally unstable, so they could be carrying a lot of baggage.
....nah, give her one more try around 8 - 9, good calling hours. The fact that she didn't call you back on her own is a bad sign, but if she's really that sexually aggresive, she may be worth a f***. (That's fvck, by the way 
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