Recently I met a girl, probably a 9, and called her to schedule a date. It was scheduled but at the day of she called and cancelled saying she was incredibly sick. She sounded really bad so I went along with it, giving her the benefit of the doubt. She called me the next week and rescheduled apologizing for it. So far so good. The date itself i had planned on being an hour and a half, but it went so incredibly well with her basically throwing herself at me so it ended up being much longer. I worked my game and she was basically forcing me to kiss her. Four days after that amazing first date i called her. She didn't answer. She called me back but i missed the call. I then returned the call later that evening, she sounded sick again she sorta mumbled how she wasn't feeling well again, and how she was on the phone with an important phone call. And then she hung up. If and when should i call again. Maybe i just caught her at a bad time? Any advice would be awesome. Thank you
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
red flag!
sounds like a headcase to me. these kind of girls are too unpredictable, if you follow her, she's gonna drive you nuts. i try to stay away from girls like these, they're too mentally unstable, so they could be carrying a lot of baggage.
sounds like a headcase to me. these kind of girls are too unpredictable, if you follow her, she's gonna drive you nuts. i try to stay away from girls like these, they're too mentally unstable, so they could be carrying a lot of baggage.
....nah, give her one more try around 8 - 9, good calling hours. The fact that she didn't call you back on her own is a bad sign, but if she's really that sexually aggresive, she may be worth a f***. (That's fvck, by the way 
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)"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.