Recently I met a girl, probably a 9, and called her to schedule a date. It was scheduled but at the day of she called and cancelled saying she was incredibly sick. She sounded really bad so I went along with it, giving her the benefit of the doubt. She called me the next week and rescheduled apologizing for it. So far so good. The date itself i had planned on being an hour and a half, but it went so incredibly well with her basically throwing herself at me so it ended up being much longer. I worked my game and she was basically forcing me to kiss her. Four days after that amazing first date i called her. She didn't answer. She called me back but i missed the call. I then returned the call later that evening, she sounded sick again she sorta mumbled how she wasn't feeling well again, and how she was on the phone with an important phone call. And then she hung up. If and when should i call again. Maybe i just caught her at a bad time? Any advice would be awesome. Thank you
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
red flag!
sounds like a headcase to me. these kind of girls are too unpredictable, if you follow her, she's gonna drive you nuts. i try to stay away from girls like these, they're too mentally unstable, so they could be carrying a lot of baggage.
sounds like a headcase to me. these kind of girls are too unpredictable, if you follow her, she's gonna drive you nuts. i try to stay away from girls like these, they're too mentally unstable, so they could be carrying a lot of baggage.
....nah, give her one more try around 8 - 9, good calling hours. The fact that she didn't call you back on her own is a bad sign, but if she's really that sexually aggresive, she may be worth a f***. (That's fvck, by the way 
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)"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.