Recently I met a girl, probably a 9, and called her to schedule a date. It was scheduled but at the day of she called and cancelled saying she was incredibly sick. She sounded really bad so I went along with it, giving her the benefit of the doubt. She called me the next week and rescheduled apologizing for it. So far so good. The date itself i had planned on being an hour and a half, but it went so incredibly well with her basically throwing herself at me so it ended up being much longer. I worked my game and she was basically forcing me to kiss her. Four days after that amazing first date i called her. She didn't answer. She called me back but i missed the call. I then returned the call later that evening, she sounded sick again she sorta mumbled how she wasn't feeling well again, and how she was on the phone with an important phone call. And then she hung up. If and when should i call again. Maybe i just caught her at a bad time? Any advice would be awesome. Thank you
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
red flag!
sounds like a headcase to me. these kind of girls are too unpredictable, if you follow her, she's gonna drive you nuts. i try to stay away from girls like these, they're too mentally unstable, so they could be carrying a lot of baggage.
sounds like a headcase to me. these kind of girls are too unpredictable, if you follow her, she's gonna drive you nuts. i try to stay away from girls like these, they're too mentally unstable, so they could be carrying a lot of baggage.
....nah, give her one more try around 8 - 9, good calling hours. The fact that she didn't call you back on her own is a bad sign, but if she's really that sexually aggresive, she may be worth a f***. (That's fvck, by the way 
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)“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.