"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Looking for advice with my 2nd child on the way

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randalljohnson said:
Define "locking me down." Is it

A) keeping me all for herself (not a bad thing)

Or

B) in a devious way trying to collect my money and assets and then leave me high and dry (which i don't believe, but u can be judge of that)
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No @randalljohnson you answer MY question first.

Did you both AGREE to have a baby together or not?

It's becoming very apparent that you like to throw down inflammatory posts, and then sit back and watch the chaos while you AVOID answering anyone's questions. Then you decide to chime in when you want to keep the thread going.

Her motives will be clear as soon as you answer the question. Did you both agree to get pregnant or did she get pregnant without discussing it with you?

Answer the question.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm leaning towards troll, btw
 
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sazc said:
No @randalljohnson you answer MY question first.

Did you both AGREE to have a baby together or not?

It's becoming very apparent that you like to throw down inflammatory posts, and then sit back and watch the chaos while you AVOID answering anyone's questions. Then you decide to chime in when you want to keep the thread going.

Her motives will be clear as soon as you answer the question. Did you both agree to get pregnant or did she get pregnant without discussing it with you?

Answer the question.
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Me and her have discussed having a kid and our future together, yes. At this specific juncture, no.
 
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sazc said:
No @randalljohnson you answer MY question first.

Did you both AGREE to have a baby together or not?

It's becoming very apparent that you like to throw down inflammatory posts, and then sit back and watch the chaos while you AVOID answering anyone's questions. Then you decide to chime in when you want to keep the thread going.

Her motives will be clear as soon as you answer the question. Did you both agree to get pregnant or did she get pregnant without discussing it with you?

Answer the question.
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Why do you think any of this is your business? Isn't this a little personal to be taking advice from strangers on the Internet?
 
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randalljohnson said:
Me and her have discussed having a kid and our future together, yes. At this specific juncture, no.
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Of all the babies ever born... How many times was it "agreed" that it would happen and how many times did it just happen?

Early humans didn't necessarily even know that sex led to reproduction.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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randalljohnson said:
Define "locking me down." Is it

A) keeping me all for herself (not a bad thing)

Or

B) in a devious way trying to collect my money and assets and then leave me high and dry (which i don't believe, but u can be judge of that)
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randalljohnson said:
Define "locking me down." Is it

A) keeping me all for herself (not a bad thing)

Or

B) in a devious way trying to collect my money and assets and then leave me high and dry (which i don't believe, but u can be judge of that)
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Are you rich or something? How much do you make in a year?
 
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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

And the multiple personality disorder conversation has arrived. Gotta make it look like you're not the same username, although I know differently.....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

And the multiple personality disorder conversation has arrived. Gotta make it look like you're not the same username, although I know differently.....
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Tell us about those businesses you run.

What exactly do they do?
 
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randalljohnson said:
Hey all. So my girlfriend (whom most of you are familiar with) is pregnant with my child and she's moving in to live with me and my kid. We've been together for just under a year. We each have a 9 year old, from seperate relationships. (I took on the father role for her kid and she loves that.) I'm sure many of you will tell me I made a huge mistake and that she's (still) going to leave me in the future. However, I'm looking for advice and insight from my fellow DJs.
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Your fooked...
 
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