RichardTheFrog
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Depending on who has custody and how much she makes.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Looking for advice with my 2nd child on the way
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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@RichardTheFrog depends on the state of residence
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Based on her being a wh0re in your other 200 threads about her, I would say a paternity test would be imminent as soon as the baby pops out if I were you.
This thread makes me happy in a very vindictive sort of way. We all told you to get away from this attention seeking tramp, now you are stuck with her for the next 18 years. Well, only if you're not smart enough to get a test done.
Sometimes people do actually get what they deserve after all
RichardTheFrog
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Do you see why I have lost motivation to go out? This is the end result of everything? Custody disputes and child support payments? What fun.
Even the fat girl with 4 cats from POF said her life's dream was to become a stay at home mom.
And then I suppose it would be my fault for not being "exciting enough" to keep her interest or some retarded logic like that. She would live off my child support and curse the fact that she wasn't able to squeeze alimony out of me.
All for sex that I could have gotten from a hooker for $150.
Even the fat girl with 4 cats from POF said her life's dream was to become a stay at home mom.
And then I suppose it would be my fault for not being "exciting enough" to keep her interest or some retarded logic like that. She would live off my child support and curse the fact that she wasn't able to squeeze alimony out of me.
All for sex that I could have gotten from a hooker for $150.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
RichardTheFrog
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I think you hang out with ugly girls and call them hot. I actually know this because you've posted pictures.
I also KNOW that you're a humongous flaming vagina with no balls. But I suppose I'll get kicked off for defending myself.
Make her sign a contract (like a prenup) that she is entitled to nothing. Not half the equity in your home, not alimony for "common law living together" no child support for her other kid should she decide 1 -5 years from now in that you've become boring but still good enough to pay the bills
So she was on the pill. Meets you then gets pregnant?
Dude i smell a girl with a plan. See my previous message.
Dude. Really?
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I agree a paternity test is of the utmost importance.
Another reason NOT to move her in with you.
You might be the wealthiest man she was having sex with rather than the only one. That would be a clever trick for her to have you paying for & raising another man's child if she were to pull it off. Until these questions are answered (AFTER the birth) do NOT turn your 9 year old's life to crap by moving her in.
Obviously she has worn you down. You are afraid of this woman's wrath when your #1 concern ought to be the emotional wellbeing of your 9 year old. Don't be a bad dad to the kid you already have. Read that again.
This woman does NOT care about your 9 year old. She cares about herself, your money, the baby, her 9 year old, you, & your 9 year old IN THAT DESCENDING ORDER.
Tell her to move nearby but not into your home. If she is understanding and agreeable to do that at her own expense then I withdraw my opinion expressed in the above paragraph.
Tell her you have reconsidered the moving in because you are concerned about your 9 year old.
Your kid is supposed to be your top priority. Stop being an ass hat to the kid you already have. Time to step up to the plate dad.
Another reason NOT to move her in with you.
You might be the wealthiest man she was having sex with rather than the only one. That would be a clever trick for her to have you paying for & raising another man's child if she were to pull it off. Until these questions are answered (AFTER the birth) do NOT turn your 9 year old's life to crap by moving her in.
Obviously she has worn you down. You are afraid of this woman's wrath when your #1 concern ought to be the emotional wellbeing of your 9 year old. Don't be a bad dad to the kid you already have. Read that again.
This woman does NOT care about your 9 year old. She cares about herself, your money, the baby, her 9 year old, you, & your 9 year old IN THAT DESCENDING ORDER.
Tell her to move nearby but not into your home. If she is understanding and agreeable to do that at her own expense then I withdraw my opinion expressed in the above paragraph.
Tell her you have reconsidered the moving in because you are concerned about your 9 year old.
Your kid is supposed to be your top priority. Stop being an ass hat to the kid you already have. Time to step up to the plate dad.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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The same "ugly girls" that you were calling hot and arguing with BigNeil over being hotter than his girls. Don't be a hater because I figured out your little tricks kid.
It was actually quite easy to do.
And I don't pull anything below 8s outside of the occasional 7.5 that can't wait to smash. Just as my pics showed.
Nice try kid.
RichardTheFrog
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I'm not a kid. You are.
I was referring to pictures of plain looking girls you posted possibly a month ago.
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My advice is to get a DNA test once the baby is born to make sure it really is yours.
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Remember how you said I was "triggered" for some reason by your situation? Yup, I still am.
You're going to be stuck dealing with this broad for the next 18 years. You've sealed that fate. I'm a bit pissed that you wasted everyone's time asking for advice on what to do with that bytch, and you continued to ignore everyone's advice and warnings.
I have no advice for you. I've already given it to you multiple times and all you did was wipe your ass with it and flush it down the toilet.
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Oh....the ones that even Big Neil's photo graders scored the lowest at 7.8 and the highest was 9.
Nice try kid. I know what kind of wool I pull. Go back to your serial killer mirror selfies on POF and tell them how much money you make flipping houses...which I dont believe btw. Anyone that can figure out how to make serious money can figure out how to get @ss in abundance....thats a fact).
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I'm not the least bit surprised shes prego. This chick knows whats shes doing and locked you down. You are the perfect target to get trapped in a Cluster B's web of death.
All the time we spent trying to knock some sense into you was nothing more than a waste a time. You seemed to not care what everyone with experience was trying to tell you, yet you constantly ask for help/advice. There is still a part of me that thinks no one can be this gullible, that you're trolling us all. Either way, prepare yourself for the roller coaster ride to hell.
May God be with you
All the time we spent trying to knock some sense into you was nothing more than a waste a time. You seemed to not care what everyone with experience was trying to tell you, yet you constantly ask for help/advice. There is still a part of me that thinks no one can be this gullible, that you're trolling us all. Either way, prepare yourself for the roller coaster ride to hell.
May God be with you
RichardTheFrog
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Oh so you're saying my pics are the problem?
I don't make that much money yet, but I will within 2 years. Maybe not $720k, but at least $300k, but $720k isn't out of question.
I have always done much better in person than online, anyway.
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Define "locking me down." Is it
A) keeping me all for herself (not a bad thing)
Or
B) in a devious way trying to collect my money and assets and then leave me high and dry (which i don't believe, but u can be judge of that)
RichardTheFrog
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Why are you asking for advice on this matter from this website? I find that ridiculous.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.