Hey guys do you feel that because you guys are donjuans and you have a bigger knowledge of women, that you go for the gorgeous chicks who take a little more time to date than say the moderate chicks, and so you feel a little left out or a little bit lonely when all your buddies have g/f. For instance, I don't date chicks exclusively, I just get to the point where I can have sex with her and then move on... don't want to be a prick but i dont wnt to commit to a girl becuase my expectations for a perfect g/f are so high. Plus, when I see a hot chick, I talk to her go for a close, but then again, few minutes later you see another hotter chick.... and the cycle continues. So to sum it up, do you fellas think that by being a don juan who doesn't committ very often, you feel a little leftout and lonely during the times when you buddies bring a g/f?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Lonliness??
- Thread starter PEACEDJ
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
Okay you have to understand that a Don Juan is not nesseccarily<--(can't spell that word)
a player but a MAN a confident strong MAN. I personally understand that being a player you feel lonely. I'm a one women man and all i want is one. And usually REALLY REALLY good G/F are not the incredibly phyiscally incredible chicks..it's those girls who can mentally attract you along with beautiful looks (well atleast for me) Stop thinkin with your D**k abd start thinkin with your head. You'll find the girl and usually it's the girl you usually don't go for...
a player but a MAN a confident strong MAN. I personally understand that being a player you feel lonely. I'm a one women man and all i want is one. And usually REALLY REALLY good G/F are not the incredibly phyiscally incredible chicks..it's those girls who can mentally attract you along with beautiful looks (well atleast for me) Stop thinkin with your D**k abd start thinkin with your head. You'll find the girl and usually it's the girl you usually don't go for...Scoiland
Senior Don Juan
i have the problem of thinking with my ****Originally posted by Badmannaz
Okay you have to understand that a Don Juan is not nesseccarily<--(can't spell that word)
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.